It’s important to be well-dressed when you head out to work, yes?

I mean, proper shirt, all of that.

The best part is that most folks don’t have a clue about the other side of us all in this world – I think that’s probably one of the most fun aspects of it all. It’s something you do for you.

I’ve read posts from time to time that talk about kink being a kink in and of itself – specifically, that it’s something that isn’t “out there” to the world, it’s something you can control, you can shape and make what you want of it, and your flavor and all the trimmings will be yours alone. That fact, that it’s your own (and your partner’s) secret is a kink to its own, and it’s a big piece of it. I completely agree.