Anyone I’ve shared this with “in real life” has always opened with this. Followed by a gaping mouth stare at me, considering whether I should be admitted to a medical facility or not. It’s very bizarre. But… I am so glad I did it, went through with it.
My PA is a thing that is just mine, ours known only to my closest of close friends (in fact, my offline friends that are aware number in the low single digits I’m sure).
I think that’s a huge part of why I love it so much though. That it’s a truly private thing, something that was conquered. Of COURSE I was terrified. OMG, have you read the tales of people getting a PA? There are even videos of it being done and I’ll never forget the one I saw, just before I went in, where the guy was screaming at the top of his lungs. You’d think he’d given birth, had the baby re-installed and given birth again – to put it lightly.
Please.
You can read about my experience here, I have a dedicated page that talks about the realities around it all. (standard disclaimer applies, your mileage may vary, void where prohibited by law, blah, blah, blah).
But the PA has been fun, challenging at times, scary to get, private, and something that has had an impact on real-life. I wrote a post that addressed the whole “can she feel it” thing – spoiler alert: yep.
I have written fiction and non-fiction about the fact that it messes with your body at the most interesting times. Think you’ve stopped just in time edging? bwahahahahaha! Nope.
It’s incredible.
I’m really glad I got the whole thing done. It’s a story, an experience, a secret and it’s all private. You know, to share with all of you. 🙂
Something I really don’t think I could ever go through. I’m pretty sure I’d be that guy screaming at the top of his lungs! I’m glad it works for you though, thanks for sharing! 😊
another thing i have thought about but never did at 64 don’t think i will. Also wanted to get my nipples pierced
so i am happy you have it and enjoy the PA forever
Love that you did this and share it where you feel safe to do so! 😉
You are so great and thank you for sharing! xx
I got my nipples pierced two years ago, switched to hoops last year. My next step is to get a PA, and increase the size of my nipple rings. I read all of your posts that are linked, and I enjoyed them, as they were very informative. I’ll say, I never thought I’d get anything pierced, but here I am with both nipples done and ready for a PA.
I’ve always been interested in a PA, but purely in the ‘I’ll stand over here and watch’ kind of way. I’m glad you get so much enjoyment from it.
I am in the camp of you are a braver man than I.
Kudos to you.
I admire your fortitude.
And thank you for sharing it with us! I love that image 🙂
Rebel xox
It took some getting used to tools… There… Lol
Can you explain that pic? I recognize certain things but …
It’s a tool that you can use to close a ring (usually for a captured ball ring). And of course a ring (2g). Depends on the type of ring/ball, but there is also a spreader (in my Twitter header) that can be used to open the ring if needed.
It was challenging to get used to that kind of force… Down there 😂
I’m looking forward to reading your page about it. I’m fascinated by PA piercings. I love the look of them, and I really love the picture accompanying this post!! 🤗