Perhaps not an explicit “fantasy” type of post, but the whole control thing has been one of the more intriguing (and hard to figure out at times) aspects of having a D/SFLR relationship. It’s oddly a button for me, and it’s a button for Charmer – at opposing ends of the spectrum of course, so it’s been important to figure out.
It’s easily one of the most animal, most basic things to experience. Waking up that scent. The scent of all of us, wrapped together, almost devouring each other, for a good, long, fun time.
It’s late and we’re wandering around, just taking in the incredible weather, chatting, playfully grabbing at each other as we go. It’s so dark it’s spooky, but I guess that’s a good thing; it’s Halloween! The different yard decorations, or at least those that are still lit at this early morning hour, are such fun to look at and as we’re wandering you keep teasing and I keep grabbing and in no time we’re both a hot mess of wanting to call it quits, but wanting it to go on for a bit as well… the tease is delicious.
“So, here’s the deal…” she says with that grin. “With it being Halloween, we’re going to play a game with a mask so you can earn some additional play time…“
My head: “whut?”
I should know better. It’s just not ever simple. She starts telling me what we’re doing – but I lose track because she’s coming at me with that full bondage hood mask we picked up a while ago. It’s one of those stretchy, blindfold embedded, ear-muffling, fully head-covering masks. I’m lost in the whole WTF of the situation. Finally, I think to ask –
We’re a little anti-stereo-typical. How’s that for an odd statement? I’m more a “WIDE AWAKE” and she’s more of a “sound asleep” kind of person. I always thought that was a little funny.
It’s a weird place to be, in that aftermath zone. It’s weird, but it’s magic too. When you’re spent, you’re allowing your mind to just be blank. If you let your mind wander and think whatever it’ll think, it wanders to your body. Your experiences. Those sensations just experienced.
The prompt today is essentially “heal.” We’re on a mini-vacation to the coast for a couple of days on the front end of a family trip – and as I was sitting here, peering out the windows at the grand sight below, I could just feel the harsher stuff of life peeling off.
It’s really interesting to see how D/sFLR stuff takes hold with different partnerships. If you read up about FLR at a fantasy level, it’s all about controlling the /s/ partner, and the /s/ partner being “forced” to do x, y or z if things go wrong.Continue reading
“Hey! Guess what!? It’s your day! I know it’s been a long time…“
I stop in my tracks and look at you. It’s the weirdest thing because you’ve not suggested anything all day, I had no idea, not an inkling. I look at you and raise my eyebrow in a kind of “what’s the catch” kind of way.
This was surprisingly easy as a Wicked Wednesday prompt. Not altogether all about kink, but…