Red Buns, Staying Put

There are many aspects of This Thing We Do (TTWD) that *seem* really mental or *seem* really physical.  But so many times, it ends up being both.

For me, that’s the case with impact play.  Honestly, I went into it thinking it was a mental “game” – just dealing with it and that I could get past it.  But the physical side of things surprises me every. single. time.

I’m “in training” I suppose – I’ve had times where we warm up and I feel pretty good about my control and response and even love it.  But then the times that come with no warm-up… not my favorite thing.  I’m still working on those times.

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Sinful Sunday #43 – Framed by Steel

My favorite days are when Charmer walks up to me and proclaims that “she’s in a mood.”  In our previous life, it might have  been “in THE mood” but now, it’s quite a different thing when she says she’s in A mood.

It means her Domme side is in full gear.

It usually means all sorts of other things too, but I’ll leave that to your imagination, or to a different post here.

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Photo: The Wartenberg Wheel

Ah yes.  The wheel.  We’ve written about it before, and it remains one of Charmer’s favorite toys to amp up the physical side of things.  It’s a weird thing, that wheel is.  When it first starts, even the slightest rolling over my skin is crazy sharp.

Give me a few minutes though and pretty much anything, anywhere works and even starts to feel good.  It’s something I’ll never understand.  And it’s not every time either, though it is pretty reliable.

So, today’s picture – is one of Charmer’s toys from her bag of tricks.

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