FLR, D/s, Life and Kink
Freedom is one of those words that seem to have as many meanings as there are people in the world. I think each one of us has our own definition and how it fits into our life.
Absolute freedom doesn’t really exist in my view. There are always things that impede on that even if you are alone. Eating is kind of important to me and I like indoor plumbing. That said, I decided to focus on freedom as it applies more to our blog.
Continue reading “Choose Freedom”It’s just a normal Sunday night. We’ve done our workouts, had some dinner, watched some TV and now it is bath time. As usual, you start the water, put in the bath bomb, get my water and phone and Kindle and strip naked to wait for me.
Continue reading “Edge For Me”It’s hard for me to look back and see another path because Snake and I always tend to look forward more than back. Yeah, we have the regrets that everyone has, but we try to take what has happened and make something else of it. And realizing that the other path wasn’t really what we wanted anyway.
Continue reading “Where Would We Be?”Trying to pick one moment or even series of moments that I would like to revisit is SO hard… so, I’m going to cheat a bit and pick a genre of moments that are always the ones that I go back to in my head.
Continue reading “Traveling”I had two ideas for this post and I couldn’t decide which way to go. I had the memorable kisses idea and then a day of kisses in our life. So, lucky you, I decided to do both.
Continue reading “Kissing”Pink doesn’t tend to be my go-to color for much so this prompt didn’t actually start with the color but with the artist. She is one of my favorite artists for her attitude and love and willingness to take risks.
Continue reading “Let’s Start a Fire”I am fortunate–well, some might say unlucky–to live in a place with sunshine about 286 days out of the year. Yes, it does get hot in the summer and we rarely get snow but the sunshine is abundant.
Continue reading “Love Me Some Sunshine”My first thought, being non-religious, was nope. We don’t do rituals. I tend to think of them as parts of the experience of religion which doesn’t really have a part in my life. Yes, I have a Christmas tree so I suppose that qualifies but it doesn’t feel ritualistic in my head.
Continue reading “Rituals”I would love to be the person who can put up one sentence or quote and say, “Wow. It’s me. ” It feels like that would mean that I had a strong sense of who I am. THIS IS ME on a plate/post/image seems like it should be attainable, but, alas, no luck so far.
Continue reading “My Life in Quotes”I think back to me at 5 and where we were in the world. I was in Stockholm for over half of the year because my dad was working on a long-term project there. I have some very clear memories and mostly a lot of foggy ones.
Continue reading “Three Things to Know”Typical lazy Sunday morning and you’ve just headed into the shower. I hear the water turn on and music start playing from the speaker in the bathroom. Some good old 80s rock….
Continue reading “Into the Shower”I don’t think that will come as a surprise to anyone that Snake is my person. In so many ways that I can only hope that I am half the person to him that he is to me.
Continue reading “My Person”Just a little extra flash from this morning. I like to keep Snake’s mind wandering when the weekend is almost here.
Continue reading “Meow….”I wasn’t sure what to write on this subject to be honest. Strangely even though it is spelled differently, the first thing that came to mind is the perfume which my mother used to wear.
Continue reading “What is Taboo?”We enter the restaurant and are seated under a huge poster of Rosie the Riveter. We order a couple of tropical drinks and put aside the menu for a bit. It’s vacation and we are in no rush.
Continue reading “Lunch Tease”On a quiet Saturday morning, I sit between your legs and start stroking you. Never one to argue with some attention, you settle in and relax a bit.
Continue reading “Just a Normal Saturday”Summer tends to be hot here in the desert and we do our best to stay in the pool or the shade.
Continue reading “Summer–KOTW”Asked Charmer… What?? replied Snake
Continue reading “Lingerie or Naked?”I started writing this post on Sunday for a completely different reason but trashed it because I couldn’t come up with a raison d’etre. See? I can be fancy.
Continue reading “Movies and TV and Plays, Oh My!”As we walk through the old-time arcade, I spy a fortune teller machine. Pulling you towards it, I hand you a quarter. Your eyebrows rise and I silently push you forward.
Continue reading “A True Turn of Luck”I love that this Food for Thought Friday ties to George Orwell and 1984. This was one of my favorite books as a tween. I was raised by a father who thought that all small children should be read classics and I vividly remember him reading Kim by Rudyard Kipling to me when I was 5. So, it is no surprise that I read all of the classics that I could find.
I don’t have a lot of fears. [Snake: I can vouch for this – from a sexy-time perspective and a life perspective] I do seriously dislike jumping bugs. I hate driving but definitely more of a control freak issue. Anything I can’t control as much as possible makes me uncomfortable. But I can’t say that it goes to fear.
Snake and I started dating at the end of high school and through college before he got an apartment and we eventually got married. Privacy was almost non-existent between families and roommates so we ended up having to find private time…outside the bedroom.
Continue reading “Cars and Pools and Balconies…Oh, My!”But at least it didn’t include the cat.
Continue reading “Outtakes – Looks like a dead body!”Today’s boobday shot is Charmer’s turn to towel off…
Continue reading “Toweling Off (Her)”Just a little view of the cleavage on display on date night…..
Continue reading “Corset”