I don’t know if we have ever told the stories about our pen names, to be honest. The names actually came before we started the blog because we needed Twitter handles.
Continue reading C is for (Steeled Snake) CharmerTag Archives: chastity
D is for Denial… Torture
“I need you, inside me, now. “
I was high as a kite hearing that. It was early in the morning, we had the house to ourselves, she has THAT look in her eyes. I’m raging against the cage, needing to feel her, wanting to feel her.
“Unlock. Get back here.”
Continue reading D is for Denial… TortureC is for Chastity: That Overnight Pressure
MMMmmmmmm… She says in her sleep… I think.
Continue reading C is for Chastity: That Overnight PressureRealities of Chastity – Suddenly, it is Chafing!
I’ve been doing this chastity thing now for several years – and life happens along the way. I wanted to quickly share something I’ve had to re-learn just recently.
Continue reading Realities of Chastity – Suddenly, it is Chafing!D is for Discipline
As a Domme, I am all about discipline. We have rules and expectations that are clear and pretty straightforward. Exceptions, of course, for life but for the most part, our D/s life runs smoothly.
Continue reading D is for DisciplineS is for Salmon
I’m going to put out a really unpopular opinion or preference or however you would like to characterize it. I don’t like salmon.
Continue reading S is for SalmonSoSS 23
Hope everyone is taking care of yourselves and each other–and here are some things to distract in a fun way.
Continue reading SoSS 23SoSS 20
Last post of February–and last Feb Photo Fest picture of 2020! Hope you’ve checked out all of the wonderful images from everyone this month. Here are some writings and images to brighten and inspire…
Continue reading SoSS 20A Night Out on the Town…
It’s been a great time in the city, we’ve been having fun finding bars, clubs, music, bands, places to play machines while taking in the sights and sounds and so much more. Tonight, we opted for a trip to that famous country bar up the road – the one with the bull, the saddle bar stools and, last time we were there, the mud wrestling…
Continue reading A Night Out on the Town…Chastity Lightning
I wanted to play around a bit with the wand… There is so much more fear than sensation with this particular approach – but the mind-game is real. Very real.
Continue reading Chastity LightningSoSS 18
Another week gone by–here are the things that caught our eye in the Interwebs this week.
Continue reading SoSS 18Hand Porn and Chastity Cages
It’s a weird thought that we’re several years into this all now. I can’t believe all that has changed, how much I’ve grown up mentally, how much I’ve learned about me, about us.
Continue reading Hand Porn and Chastity CagesChastity Cage, Caught in a Net
“I dunno whut happened, I was just strolling along and … BAM!”
Continue reading Chastity Cage, Caught in a NetI Cancelled Your Appointments
You nuzzle in, scooting up against my chest and shoulder as you settle in for the night against me. I swear, at times like this, you were a cat in a former life and I can almost hear you purring. It’s wonderful, relaxed and delicious to fall asleep this way.
Continue reading I Cancelled Your AppointmentsSomeday, Will We Flaunt?
Someday I hope we don’t have to be as careful about all of this stuff we’re collectively interested in. It’s weird, if you stay in our relatively small comfort zone bubble where we interact with others with the same acceptance, their own interests, etc. – it all becomes ok.
Continue reading Someday, Will We Flaunt?SoSS 13
Things are pretty much back to normal shenanigans in the Snake Den–hope the first full week of January has been good to you! Here are some fun images and words to brighten your weekend.
Continue reading SoSS 13Motivation, Chastity and Life
I have said it before – I love the ways that all of this thing we do can be done. Flavors of a theme, different “levels” or activities, different approaches. All of it so finely tuned to what works for you and your partners, it’s pretty cool that there is this assumption that “well, yeah. There’s this thing, but you have to figure out the details for you in what you like.“
Take the good ol’ chastity cage, for example. There’s everything from “rivet that sucker in place” to “we use it for play time” and none is better than any other. It’s what works for you.
Continue reading Motivation, Chastity and LifeHot and Sexy Reads for the Fire – Bawdy Bells 10
Photo courtesy of Focused and Filthy
Welcome to Elust 125–
The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #125? Start with the rules, come back January 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!
~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~
~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~
Observing a Sex blogger or Two by Mr More
The cutie pie and the sex toy, Part 2
Erotic Fiction
Lelia, Interrupted
The Flight
Helping Hand (a Husband’s Fantasy)
The Sexual Torture Wave
Room 26 – Pearce (A Life of Pleasure Part 2)
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
That Little Click
Learning to Be Friends Again
5 Reasons Why Unsolicited Dick Pics Aren’t Ok
My partner is FB official with my metamour
Body Talk & Sexual Health
You Like That, Don’t You? -A Submissive’s Str
Erotic Non-Fiction
Silk
The Bodyguard, Part I
A Dirty Treat
Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor
5 Countries Where Sex Toys Are Illegal
Mainstream Chastity?
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Submissive Training is it necessary?
Cum tribute me
Blogging
Plan your multitasking…
Spam bot or sex worker?
Books and Movies
Secret Diary of Call Girl: Celluloid Dungeon
Chastity Cage and a Zipper
The cage is a bizarre thing. It means different things to different people. How cool is that? Different people use it in different ways – it feels different to them mentally and physically than anyone else.
Sure there are similarities. There are root things like bondage and control and all of that. But if you read the blogs, you’ll see, it’s never exactly the same.
Continue reading Chastity Cage and a ZipperSoSS 8
Here’s a list of some of the writings and images that caught our eye this week. Hope those of you who were celebrating had a great holiday!
Continue reading SoSS 8Need some amazing reading? Check these out!
Photo courtesy of Discovering Kink
Welcome to Elust 124–
The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #125? Start with the rules, come back December1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!
~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~
~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~
Lessons From Two Years in a Polyamorous Triad
Continue reading Need some amazing reading? Check these out!
Look… I cleaned the bathrooms…
Sometimes it’s fun to send a surprise image, sometimes it’s fun to see if you can catch people off-guard.
For those that follow along on Twitter, you know Charmer has a great deal of fun sending to places where I have to know I have a message, but may, or may not, be able to actually read/stare at/gawk at in the moment.
Continue reading Look… I cleaned the bathrooms…You’re Going to Have to Work for It…
“I’m feeling really lazy, and like, well, switching things up,” you tell me. “And besides, I like to watch you. So… here’s the deal. You get to cum!“
I smile. Then my brain kicks back in and I realize there must be a catch. There’s always a catch. Some weird twist on things or some other tweak you’re putting in the mix.
I’m not wrong.
Continue reading You’re Going to Have to Work for It…The Things We Do …
Minds are an interesting place. Or, at least in my case, MY mind is a strange place. I am constantly looking at this or that picture or video or reading a post or story or book and thinking….
Oh yeah? Well, what if we went to the next step? What IS that next step? What would that be like? How would that work… then my brain devolves into this animal mode thing of irrationality and obsession…
Continue reading The Things We Do …Do you… Kink? And What is Locktober/Chastity About?
Sort of answer the first, with the second. But suffice to say I think I’d be classified as “kinky” and I can vouch for Charmer holding that banner as well. Weird thought, interesting label, but it got me thinking about that. Well, that and a series of posts about Chastity (think diamonds) and so much more.
Continue reading Do you… Kink? And What is Locktober/Chastity About?