It strikes me that this whole thing (this thing that we do, TTTWD) takes a LOT of heavy lifting at times. Sometimes it’s working out details. A lot of times it’s working to keep an open mind (we’re going to do WHAT??!) and other times, it’s being mindful that you’re trying to change your own behaviors along the way.
Continue reading “Sometimes, A Reset”Scrabble Results
We finished up the last game on July 3rd. He needed to score 160 to win, 120-159 to draw and less than that was a loss.
Continue reading “Scrabble Results”Sinful Sunday: Snake, Hands and Strategic Placement
Yeah, yeah. I know. Charmer has a way of putting those games together (scrabble, trivial pursuit, even cards against humanity) and then putting these pictures together as my thing to do if I lose. And. interestingly, I typically don’t just lose. I get killed.
Continue reading “Sinful Sunday: Snake, Hands and Strategic Placement”Boobday: Textures
I loved the different textures in this shot – something about fluffy next to drippy next to skin.
Continue reading “Boobday: Textures”From comment: “What makes you so special?”
We’ve not received the volume of negative comments that others do, for that, I’m not at all unhappy. But we did receive one the other day that actually had me thinking.
In essence, (paraphrased) “What makes you so special? FLR and D/s and these things all of you write about don’t make you better than (me) and I’m sick of reading about it. People without this aren’t less happy, less sexy, less (fill in the blank)… Stop dictating how people should live!”
In essence, SHUT UP ABOUT IT.
Continue reading “From comment: “What makes you so special?””Center
No matter how far I wander, what missteps and dead-ends I find, I always find my way back to center.
Continue reading “Center”Snippet of Life
From our DM this morning…
Continue reading “Snippet of Life”Perfectionism
Do I struggle with perfectionism? Absolutely. In fact, as I started to write this, I went searching for the “perfect” quote to match my thoughts about perfection and started spinning on which one was the “right” one.
Continue reading “Perfectionism”Sinful Sunday – A Night Out, A Night In
I always like a little black dress…
Continue reading “Sinful Sunday – A Night Out, A Night In”Boobday: ‘Scuse Me, Can You Lend a Hand?
I saw this, and all I could think of was the flirty line – “can you please help me with my zipper?”
Continue reading “Boobday: ‘Scuse Me, Can You Lend a Hand?”A True Turn of Luck
As we walk through the old-time arcade, I spy a fortune teller machine. Pulling you towards it, I hand you a quarter. Your eyebrows rise and I silently push you forward.
Continue reading “A True Turn of Luck”Bodies are Weird. A Different Story of Betrayal – Body Betrayal.
It seems like I should have great control over my own body. I’ve always worked to have the strength (and will) to work through whatever I can foresee happening. Of course, that’s not a perfect goal, but it IS something I actively reach for. This runs the full range, from O-control to being able to do fancy-schmancy dance moves.
But this isn’t a fancy-schmancy dance moves kinda site, ya know? So you know where I’m headed…
Continue reading “Bodies are Weird. A Different Story of Betrayal – Body Betrayal.”Snake’s Body
Is amazing as you’ve seen and I love it.
While I enjoy looking at attractive bodies, it doesn’t tend to correlate to sexual interest. I need to have that special connection to someone before that happens.
Continue reading “Snake’s Body”2 Hours of Sexual Torture… that really was.
So, of course, Charmer won the game that was built around that inhumane cards…of game. I will never forgive everyone for simply picking incorrectly – I mean, would it have killed you to pick mine? Not a single person wrote to ask which one…
My penance – 2 hours of torture of her choosing.
Continue reading “2 Hours of Sexual Torture… that really was.”Summer Lovin’
We thought about writing a post summing up all of the posts in June–but it is summer and Sunday and decided that the pool was too inviting.
Continue reading “Summer Lovin’”Sinful Sunday – Topless Eruption
Having some fun with splish-splashy times here in the Southwest of the US.
Continue reading “Sinful Sunday – Topless Eruption”Boobday: A Hint of Pool
The weather has definitely turned here and we’re headed into the summer days of sunshine and heat.
Continue reading “Boobday: A Hint of Pool”It’s Back….Scrabble That is
And Snake has obviously missed his favorite game. So, being the benevolent leader who I am, I am going to let him play it again. What are the rules and challenges this time?
Continue reading “It’s Back….Scrabble That is”Near Misses and Kink Orbits
I’ve been thinking a lot about how D/s and all of this has woven into our lives – it’s a huge piece of our responses, our reactions to thing that happen in daily life. And, you also see it literally everywhere in the kink space – from Fetlife to Twitter and other spaces. People lean on their D/s side, their kink side, to help right the ship of life when things get choppy.
Continue reading “Near Misses and Kink Orbits”Snake’s Perspective: Lifestyle D/sFLR
This is a second part to Charmer’s post, here.
I don’t get as many questions about things as Charmer does – but I do get a lot of assumptions. I get assumptions about what it means to be in an FLR with D/s structure and how it all works for us. It’s odd how people will see a video, read a story someplace and assume that that’s both reality and the same for everyone.
Continue reading “Snake’s Perspective: Lifestyle D/sFLR”Charmer’s Perspective: Lifestyle Dominance
Oh, you’re a Domme? I get that question at least a few times a week. However, it is phrased, from genuine interest to titillation, there are definite assumptions made about me, Snake and us. Some true, some false and some downright laugh out loud funny.
Continue reading “Charmer’s Perspective: Lifestyle Dominance”TMI and Good Bones
I love reading the TMI Tuesday questions and last week was one that I wrote to Snake about in our personal journal. The question was: Love is made of many components. What are your top three components of love?
Continue reading “TMI and Good Bones”Sinful Sunday – Anyone need a towel? (Snake)
One of my, er, assignments… is to to share more pictures. I’m a much more shy snake than Charmer…
Continue reading “Sinful Sunday – Anyone need a towel? (Snake)”Boobday – Drama!
It’s another boobday here in the snake pit…
Continue reading “Boobday – Drama!”Results of Round Two of the Game
There have been memes and life and I haven’t had time to give the results of the second round. I’m sure it has been in the back of your brain, keeping you awake at night so, here goes….
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