You are strapped to the bed, spread eagle, as I walk around you, admiring my work. You are watching me, silently, knowing that the time for talking is over.
Continue reading “What’s Love Got to Do With It?”Snake Net
You know how they do fishing – where they cast a net, let it sink around the fish, trapping them, then pull it in to reveal the catch of the day?
Continue reading “Snake Net”Boobday – Please pass the towel (#3,245,678)
Now you might think it’s her, asking ME for the towel, ya know, to cover up.
Continue reading “Boobday – Please pass the towel (#3,245,678)”My Way
Today marks 10 years since my mom died. It weirdly seems like it was yesterday and like it was so much longer ago. Life goes on and we keep going and it’s strange that she hasn’t been here to see things unfold.
Continue reading “My Way”You Got a Piercing… WHERE?
Anyone I’ve shared this with “in real life” has always opened with this. Followed by a gaping mouth stare at me, considering whether I should be admitted to a medical facility or not. It’s very bizarre. But… I am so glad I did it, went through with it.
Continue reading “You Got a Piercing… WHERE?”My Attic
It is so hard to describe the crazy out of control feelings that you are sure that you are the only one who experiences and feel like a complete freak at time when reality doesn’t matter to your brain.
Or is that just me?
Continue reading “My Attic”You Found Me
It’s one of those fall days in the desert where it is still too hot to do anything outside that doesn’t involve a pool. We decide to go to up the mountain so we can take a hike because we’ve been tired of being stuck inside during the triple digit days.
Continue reading “You Found Me”Lady in Red
You’ve been thinking about the red under the dress all night. I let you watch me dress, your favorite red bra, bikini and garters, all hidden just barely. You watched me cross my legs and bend and flirt and laugh, knowing what was hidden from sight.
Continue reading “Lady in Red”When She Takes Back Control
There are times, when we’re out and about, that I get caught off guard. OK, there are a LOT of times when that happens with Charmer. She has a knack for yanking back control.
Imagine. I went to try to wear something surprising – something to make her grin…
Continue reading “When She Takes Back Control”Fridays for Fun Days
It’s that time of the week once again – boobday. 🙂
It’s been a fun time around the old snake den (pit?)… Charmer is working up some lingerie reviews for the site and, dang it, but she is constantly asking me for second opinions.
Continue reading “Fridays for Fun Days”Colder Weather (Zac Brown Band)
We stand beside each, holding hands, left to right, waiting. The music starts and we begin. I turn into your embrace and we move together across the floor, slow, slow, triple step, triple step.
Continue reading “Colder Weather (Zac Brown Band)”Frigid Can Be Fun…
As I knock my boots clear of the snow and wetness that seems to have completely saturated them, caking on to them, almost sneaking into all of the cracks and crevices, we look at each other and sneer first, then full on laugh, almost falling over.
You’re not really supposed to do THAT trail with the tubes, but hey, it wasn’t outright forbidden, we’d just endured a lot of whistling on the way down the hill, and not of the encouraging kind. But man o man. The adrenaline rush was undeniable.
Continue reading “Frigid Can Be Fun…”Curiosity Killed the Cat
A typewriter on the wooden floor grabs your attention as you walk into the room. Yes, it has been tucked away in a closet for years, a relic from a garage sale that caught our eye.
Continue reading “Curiosity Killed the Cat”Loving You Easy
“Bitch!” I sputter as you splash me and I head for the deep end of the pool. I hear you laughing behind me as I surface, reaching for the edge and pushing my hair back from my face.
Continue reading “Loving You Easy”Love Remains the Same
Life. Oh that up and down and sideways and topsy-turvy ride that reminds me of a carnival sometimes. The roller coaster fun with the creepy house of mirrors and weird smells and too much.
Continue reading “Love Remains the Same”Fishnets and Gorgeous Views
Charmer likes to find new and very cool ways to point out the scenery. One of my favorite, is the fishnet pointer system..
Continue reading “Fishnets and Gorgeous Views”Oh, Snake… Have a great day!
Some days, she just surprises me. I was headed out to work, “OH, BOOBDAY!” was the thought that races through my mind… Oh, come on, you too?
Continue reading “Oh, Snake… Have a great day!”Cherry Pie
You walk in the room and there is a blanket and pillows on the floor, music playing from the TV. You recognize the Supernatural playlist and notice the note on the blanket. Undress, have a drink and sit on the blanket
Continue reading “Cherry Pie”Of Safewords and Overload
Safewords are a funny thing. Pretty regularly you’ll see “It’s ok to safeword” on twitter, blogs and all of the places we collectively go to read, write and interact. This is critical, important, and something too many people consider leaving out of a D/s or kink scene. Beforehand, it’s easy to be swept up in the draw of a scene, or a relationship, or both.
But, in the heat of the moment, that’s NOT the time to be calling out “zucchini fries!!!!” at the top of your lungs, thinking it’s your safeword. Get that stuff established at the onset.
Continue reading “Of Safewords and Overload”Songs of My Soul
Picking one type of music for me would be impossible. I definitely have my favorites and things that I would rather pass on but so many different genres speak to me.
Continue reading “Songs of My Soul”Caught in the Rain
The clouds had moved in a bit but we figured we had time for a quick walk after dinner. The sun was starting to go down and it was cooling off a little after a hot desert day.
Continue reading “Caught in the Rain”Commando Day
We are sitting at lunch as a bus drives by with an ad on the side and I smirk. It’s gone before you see it and you look puzzled. “Go in and take off your underwear–it’s commando day.”
Continue reading “Commando Day”After the Fun
It’s always amazing to me to step back, try to stay in that exact moment, just after. Maybe I’m odd. But in all of the frenzy of life, in all of the ins and outs of life, relationships, the noise… I find more and more that I focus on trying to stay present in important moments.
Continue reading “After the Fun”Boobday! I mean, TGIF!
Well, today’s the day – that day of the week where all hell breaks loose, where we can just see the weekend and take a breath – and think about all the things we’ve done this last week…
Continue reading “Boobday! I mean, TGIF!”The Boy in the Photo
Trigger warning: suicide
This is definitely not the usual Charmer post. I wasn’t sure if I would write for this post because it’s a subject that has a lot of baggage for me. A friend told me that I should, that what I have to say might make a difference, so…
Continue reading “The Boy in the Photo”