Charmer seems to always be looking for interesting ways to introduce chance into the mix of things. OK, let’s be real. Usually “chance” is heavily slanted and influenced by her, to her advantage, but that’s half the fun – knowing that if I were to win a round, things would be that much sweeter… that time anyway.
This is no different.
Continue reading Domme’s Advent Calendar, Or Sexy Time BingoI admit that when we first started our path through D/s and FLR, rewards and punishment weren’t on the top of my mind. Partly, I think because our relationship had history where Snake tends to do what I like and he rarely fights anything with me unless he feels really strongly about it.
Continue reading Rewards and Punishment from the Charmer SideIt’s that time of year. Decorating and cooking and shopping and wrapping seem to take up too much of the play time.
Continue reading Tie a Ribbon Round the…(Oak Tree)We had a lot of fun putting together a few pictures based around the fireplace. It’s a pretty big fixture here in the cooler times, because it’s great to be able to have the warmth – both actual heat and the mental space.
Continue reading Playing with FireFirst week of December is over already–wow! Here are some of our favorite writings and images from this week.
Continue reading SoSS 9Today is boobday! Today a bit different, a bit of fun, and you may get to apply some imagination to see what’s just beyond the edge of the image…
Continue reading Boobday: Side, Under, On Fire*This was originally posted in December for Food 4 Thought but it fits in well with the current Book Matters. And it is a fabulous children’s book!*
I was so excited to see this prompt because I am a reader. I rarely leave the house without my Kindle and bath time is always spent reading. And it’s a great day when I can slip some time in during the day as well.
Continue reading A Wrinkle in TimeShe loves to tease, to edge and to control. It’s not as much about denial, but about the control of the thing that she loves. The randomness (to me) of it all, and the “never knowing when/if” are things she is masterful at, and things she relishes.
Continue reading Apologies for a hair triggerToday has been a day of list making and trying to knock a few things off the list. I have lists for me, lists for Snake, and more lists for work and life. Just as I cross off a few, I always end up adding another to the bottom.
Continue reading Defining CharmerWe start to get ready to go walking through the lights of a very festive neighborhood. The rain that had been threatening all day decided to leave so it was a perfect clear night.
Continue reading Strolling Through the LightsIt’s Sinful Sunday prompt time and the prompt for December is the letter “H” – so a few things came together for the image today.
Continue reading By the letter “H” – Hearth, Hair and HeatHere’s a list of some of the writings and images that caught our eye this week. Hope those of you who were celebrating had a great holiday!
Continue reading SoSS 8Quick (and somewhat late in the day) boobday picture. Charmer does like to lay back and chill and read…
Continue reading Just Laying Here Reading…Date night is usually dinner out or maybe take out and a movie on the couch. It’s not really about the where as much as it is about getting some time together.
Continue reading Just a Little Strip PokerThe Wicked Wednesday theme this week is multitasking. Kind of cracked me up because I think I may be one of the more odd people that this is actually a kink of mine, something that features A LOT in different posts, stories, ideas and fantasies.
Continue reading Multitasking as a Kink? Leave it to me.If you don’t live in a hot dry climate, you may never have seen a dust devil. They are like a mini tornado that come out of nowhere, spiraling dirt and other debris into the air and then are gone. Once in a while they cause some damage but usually they are just a nuisance.
Continue reading Charmer as a Dust DevilThe room has incredible vaulted ceilings with windows and a skylight. All of the light floods into the room and I think about how beautiful it will be at night to see the stars.
Continue reading The View From BelowI have a thing for curves… I think it’s very hot how they interact, in a manner of speaking.
Continue reading Lingerie and Hair…Here are some writings and images that we really liked this week. Enjoy!
Continue reading SoSS 7It’s that time of week once again! It’s boobday, of course, and I get to have an excuse to pose and take pictures of Charmer. I mean, not that I would ever lean on that excuse to, well, position. *evil grin*
Continue reading A Wee Bit ‘o RedFreedom is one of those words that seem to have as many meanings as there are people in the world. I think each one of us has our own definition and how it fits into our life.
Absolute freedom doesn’t really exist in my view. There are always things that impede on that even if you are alone. Eating is kind of important to me and I like indoor plumbing. That said, I decided to focus on freedom as it applies more to our blog.
Continue reading Choose Freedom“Take my car today, please…” she says. “I may have some donation stuff and I want to get it into the back of your truck so you can take it over after work.” Silly me, I didn’t think much of it, but that it seemed out of nowhere.
Someday, someday I hope I’ll flip on that “something is not right here…” switch and at least be able to pick up on things when a game is afoot. Today… is not that day.
Continue reading Tinted Windows
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Lessons From Two Years in a Polyamorous Triad
I have an absolute love of travel. And an absolute hatred of it. We’ve traveled a lot of different ways in our marriage and each one has its positives and negatives.
Continue reading Charmer and TravelIt starts with a note in your lunch. Check your glove compartment box for the beginning of the quest. Intrigued, you go out and find a magnifying glass and a photo.
Continue reading Scavenger Hunt