The easy answer is that I know it when I feel it–but it isn’t that easy. It comes in a lot of shapes and sizes, some passing quickly, while others stay for a lifetime. They are all unique and yet…
Continue reading “What is Intimacy?”Motivation, Chastity and Life
I have said it before – I love the ways that all of this thing we do can be done. Flavors of a theme, different “levels” or activities, different approaches. All of it so finely tuned to what works for you and your partners, it’s pretty cool that there is this assumption that “well, yeah. There’s this thing, but you have to figure out the details for you in what you like.“
Take the good ol’ chastity cage, for example. There’s everything from “rivet that sucker in place” to “we use it for play time” and none is better than any other. It’s what works for you.
Continue reading “Motivation, Chastity and Life”Charmer’s Priorities for 2020
Priorities are always a struggle for me. Personal relationship ones are easy. I tend to love spending time with and doing things for the people in my life.
Continue reading “Charmer’s Priorities for 2020”What to do on an empty ferry…..
We had planned some extra time for us at the end of our family trip. A three hour drive and we are in a seaside town. We check into the B&B and head to the ferry.
Continue reading “What to do on an empty ferry…..”Shadowy Cleavage
Early morning light, a little (!) bit of a tease, having fun with a come-hither look… I’m all about that.
Continue reading “Shadowy Cleavage”SoSS 12
Between travel and holidays and a really annoying bug, the Snake household has been pretty much out of commission for a couple of weeks. Sorry about the skip last week, but we are back on schedule now.
And without further ado, here’s some sexy writings and images for your pleasure…
Continue reading “SoSS 12”Boobday: Our Xmas Tree!
In the spirit of the holidays, we thought we’d share the Snake Den’s Xmas tree with everyone. It came out quite lovely this year, don’t you think? So many great decorations and colors…
Continue reading “Boobday: Our Xmas Tree!”Bawdy Bells 13 — A Year in Pictures
On the last day of the year, we thought we would do a recap of the favorite pictures by popularity for each of the months. So, without further ado…
Continue reading “Bawdy Bells 13 — A Year in Pictures”Bawdy Bells 12 – Psychedelic Cleavage
The snake den has been thrown for a loop – between colds and red-eye travel, it’s been a very slithery time getting our post out. Apologies.
Continue reading “Bawdy Bells 12 – Psychedelic Cleavage”Bawdy Bells 11 — Blanket Fort
Sometimes, when the holidays get to be too much, you just need to build an old-fashioned blanket fort and hide away….
Continue reading “Bawdy Bells 11 — Blanket Fort”Hot and Sexy Reads for the Fire – Bawdy Bells 10
Photo courtesy of Focused and Filthy
Welcome to Elust 125–
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~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~
~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~
Observing a Sex blogger or Two by Mr More
The cutie pie and the sex toy, Part 2
Erotic Fiction
Lelia, Interrupted
The Flight
Helping Hand (a Husband’s Fantasy)
The Sexual Torture Wave
Room 26 – Pearce (A Life of Pleasure Part 2)
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
That Little Click
Learning to Be Friends Again
5 Reasons Why Unsolicited Dick Pics Aren’t Ok
My partner is FB official with my metamour
Body Talk & Sexual Health
You Like That, Don’t You? -A Submissive’s Str
Erotic Non-Fiction
Silk
The Bodyguard, Part I
A Dirty Treat
Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor
5 Countries Where Sex Toys Are Illegal
Mainstream Chastity?
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Submissive Training is it necessary?
Cum tribute me
Blogging
Plan your multitasking…
Spam bot or sex worker?
Books and Movies
Secret Diary of Call Girl: Celluloid Dungeon
Winter Flannel… sort of. (Bawdy Bells 9)
Today’s contribution to Bawdy Bells is a bit of a flash, a bit of a winter fashion (I mean, who doesn’t love seeing his flannel on her, no matter who your “his” and “her” are!) and amazing wishes.
Continue reading “Winter Flannel… sort of. (Bawdy Bells 9)”A Dream So Real (Bawdy Bells 8)
It was one of those dreams that is so real, so … amazing. You just want it to go on forever. I can feel your hands on me. Feel your breath on my neck. Feel your grip on me.
Continue reading “A Dream So Real (Bawdy Bells 8)”Sinful Sunday… Best is yet to come… (and Bawdy Bells 7)
It’s almost the end of the year, end of the decade, so many things that offer a chance to reminisce. But it’s even more important to look forward – think about the things left to be done, things to try, things to experience.
Continue reading “Sinful Sunday… Best is yet to come… (and Bawdy Bells 7)”SoSS 11 — AKA Bawdy Bells 6
With this crazy time of the year, take a little time for yourself and enjoy these images and writings that we loved this week.
Continue reading “SoSS 11 — AKA Bawdy Bells 6”Bawdy Bells 5 — Lies?
The Christmas piece of this prompt never really applied to me. Yes, we put out cookies and milk for Santa and got a gift on Christmas morning. And, yes, I was told when I questioned if he was “real,” that only kids who believe got gifts from him. But, it was always more of an embodiment of the magic of Christmas rather than a person so it never felt deceitful to me.
Continue reading “Bawdy Bells 5 — Lies?”Bawdy Bells 4 — Charmer is Always Right
“The party starts at 7,” you say, pointedly looking at me. I am currently on the bed, tea in hand and naked.
Continue reading “Bawdy Bells 4 — Charmer is Always Right”Bawdy Bells 3 – Naughty or Nice… well, duh.
Meeting me at the door with the mistletoe held over your head and that grin – priceless. The fact that you’re dressed in a sleek black lacy bit of lingerie – just adds to the effect. I just about drop everything right there, but the door hasn’t even closed behind me.
Continue reading “Bawdy Bells 3 – Naughty or Nice… well, duh.”Bawdy Bells 2 — You Forgot These
Isn’t that always the case? You are decorating and think everything is done and then you see one last thing you forgot.
Continue reading “Bawdy Bells 2 — You Forgot These”Bawdy Bells 1 – A little ‘claus
Kicking things off – “things” being just having a little fun with the season – join in!
Continue reading “Bawdy Bells 1 – A little ‘claus”Bawdy Bells 2019
Welcome to Bawdy Bells!
This is a completely informal meme, meant to run the from the 16th to the 31st of December. A picture, a post, an experience – sharing in the spirit of the season, whatever that may mean to you.
Continue reading “Bawdy Bells 2019”Sinful Sunday – Candles, Skin and More
I think of this a bit like a “bow of light” – ’tis the season, after all, yes?
Continue reading “Sinful Sunday – Candles, Skin and More”SoSS 10
Here are some great images and words that caught our eye this week–check them out!
Continue reading “SoSS 10”Boobday: So… close.
It’s that time of the week once again. Hard to believe – we’re screaming through the end of this year and it’s Friday, boobday, once again.
Continue reading “Boobday: So… close.”Chastity Cage and a Zipper
The cage is a bizarre thing. It means different things to different people. How cool is that? Different people use it in different ways – it feels different to them mentally and physically than anyone else.
Sure there are similarities. There are root things like bondage and control and all of that. But if you read the blogs, you’ll see, it’s never exactly the same.
Continue reading “Chastity Cage and a Zipper”