I was having a conversation with a good friend online this morning, talking about the differences between kink and sex and how all of these things weave into relationships and how we see and are with our partners. Then, they said the darndest thing.
Continue reading Inter-Dependency and KinkThat Hat…
Yesterday Snake wrote about a certain bar in a certain city with a certain mechanical bull...
Continue reading That Hat…A Night Out on the Town…
It’s been a great time in the city, we’ve been having fun finding bars, clubs, music, bands, places to play machines while taking in the sights and sounds and so much more. Tonight, we opted for a trip to that famous country bar up the road – the one with the bull, the saddle bar stools and, last time we were there, the mud wrestling…
Continue reading A Night Out on the Town…Chastity Lightning
I wanted to play around a bit with the wand… There is so much more fear than sensation with this particular approach – but the mind-game is real. Very real.
Continue reading Chastity LightningSoSS 19
Hope you had a sexy and fun week–here are some of the writings and images that we really liked!
Continue reading SoSS 19The Aftermath: Dreamy Boobday
It’s been one of those times, the times where you push and push and push and pull back. Then push more. I end up a hot mess. I swear, to you, it’s like having a toy, a challenge.
Continue reading The Aftermath: Dreamy BoobdayRegretting the Results
The term regret always makes me think about my mother. She insisted that the only song that she had to have at her funeral was My Way. There were wrong choices and problems in her life but she always kept moving forward.
Continue reading Regretting the ResultsWhat Is It About Fishnets?
I mean, seriously. There are all sorts of fishnets – from really fine mesh patterns to lacy patterns to broad, open patterns.
Continue reading What Is It About Fishnets?Toxic
What makes a person toxic? To me, it’s a person who can’t see past their own lives and experiences and empathize. If it doesn’t forward their own view of themselves, make them money or something for them, the person or experience or whatever is worthless.
Continue reading ToxicDressed Down
It’s nice to dress up and go out to dinner or dancing or a movie.
Continue reading Dressed DownThin Lace, Cleavage and Shadows
We thought that perhaps if we could do more “Spring-time” colors, those of you that are weaving our way through winter would feel a bit of warmth, so to speak….
Continue reading Thin Lace, Cleavage and ShadowsSoSS 18
Another week gone by–here are the things that caught our eye in the Interwebs this week.
Continue reading SoSS 18A Valentine’s Day Boobday
Today’s boobday is a heart-felt boobday shot…
Continue reading A Valentine’s Day BoobdayLove Actions
Love letters are sweet. They make you feel good and you can put them away and bring them back out again and relive that moment. Everyone likes to hear that someone thinks they are special and important.
Continue reading Love ActionsCharmer: Time For My Back Rub
We’ve been just being lazy for a bit. Watching the latest episodes, enjoying some wine, nibbling on bits and pieces of cheese and poking at each other.
“Time for my back rub…” you say, popping up off the couch. “And I’d really love a refill on the wine.”
Continue reading Charmer: Time For My Back RubHand Porn and Chastity Cages
It’s a weird thought that we’re several years into this all now. I can’t believe all that has changed, how much I’ve grown up mentally, how much I’ve learned about me, about us.
Continue reading Hand Porn and Chastity CagesPayback is Hard…And Snake Always Gets His…
You know what it is like to share a house and room with someone when you still go out with for dates?
Continue reading Payback is Hard…And Snake Always Gets His…Chastity Cage, Caught in a Net
“I dunno whut happened, I was just strolling along and … BAM!”
Continue reading Chastity Cage, Caught in a NetSoSS 17
Here’s some fun stories and writings and images from the past week. And make sure to check out everyone who is participating in Feb Photo Fest 2020–some wonderful images! Ours for today is way down at the bottom of the page.
Continue reading SoSS 17Friday is Boobday!
White, frilly, thin material. I mean, it’s just begging for a boobday shot, ya know?
Continue reading Friday is Boobday!Chicken Tortilla Soup
I think I have mentioned a couple of times on Twitter and in the blog that Snake and I have been doing Keto for close to two years. We’ve both lost over 50 pounds and feel a lot better.
Continue reading Chicken Tortilla SoupI Am, Because We Are
It’s amazing having those key people in your life, seeing that the impact is so much more than the “sum of the parts.”
Continue reading I Am, Because We ArePurple Lace
Date night and we’re headed out to one of our favorite pubs. We eat and have a couple of drinks, casually talking and watching the people around us. There’s a game on the TVs over the bar and a crowd is cheering for the home team.
Continue reading Purple LaceThe Woman Through the Door
The old-fashioned style door has frosted glass lending a dreamy quality to the images beyond.
Continue reading The Woman Through the DoorElust – Amazing Sexy Writing from Around the Web
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Welcome to Elust 126–
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~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~
2020, the year I stop masturbating.
I Am Fat: On Fat Acceptance and Fat Shaming
~ Featured Post by our Guest Editor(Cara’s Picks) ~
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