Near Misses and Kink Orbits

I’ve been thinking a lot about how D/s and all of this has woven into our lives – it’s a huge piece of our responses, our reactions to thing that happen in daily life. And, you also see it literally everywhere in the kink space – from Fetlife to Twitter and other spaces. People lean … Continue reading Near Misses and Kink Orbits

Can’t, Won’t, Don’t Wanna and Fear of the Unknown

Over at the Male Chastity Journal, Lion wrote about “Can’t and Won’t” – and specifically how enforced chastity has applied to their lives.  I thought it was really interesting to see the distinction between the two… and it got me thinking about how many things I’ve personally seen go from can’t to won’t to can to … Continue reading Can’t, Won’t, Don’t Wanna and Fear of the Unknown

The Game

Overview The game is all about orgasm control, getting the submissive partner to earn points to be eligible for orgasm (but not entitled) and having fun. The game evolves as you play it.  Go with that – come up with new things you want to assign points to.  Here are the basics: There is a … Continue reading The Game

The Power of Chastity, Orgasm Control

I was reading Thumper’s post today about “High Anxiety” and it really struck a nerve.  A good nerve.  I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the impact of chastity and giving over control.  Even with my recent issues with Edema, my mindset is still one of her controlling the whole orgasm side of things.  I … Continue reading The Power of Chastity, Orgasm Control