Steeled Snake

March 26, 2020

Boundaries

Content warning: Deals with current events and 9/11

Boundaries are a struggle for me. I tend to go either too loose or totally tighten them down. I don’t compromise very well with them at all.

March 25, 2020

Today’s topic is all about hugging. Sounds a bit cheesy perhaps on the outset, but bear with me. Hugging, for us, is a very versatile thing. Hugging is a calming thing, when things go nutty, a recovery thing after a scene or … correction.

March 24, 2020

Anniversary Scrabble–The Results

Yes–we did finally finish the game that I started on the 6th…. It ended on Saturday night with my backrub and happy ending.

March 23, 2020

Working From Home

Yep…this is the new normal for a while. We’ve set up an office for you in one of the bedrooms and agreed that you will be back there except for necessities. Actual necessities….

March 22, 2020March 22, 2020

I Like Your Style

We were in Vegas, wandering and doing things you do in Vegas. If there’s one thing being with Charmer has taught me, it is that you do the things when they present themselves, because you both never know what you’ll really like, and never know when you might have the chance again in the future.

March 21, 2020

SoSS 23

Hope everyone is taking care of yourselves and each other–and here are some things to distract in a fun way.

March 19, 2020

Holding On

Like most of the rest of the world, we are struggling to find a new normal for the time being. It definitely makes it harder to blog about sexy stuff when everything is so scary around us.

March 18, 2020

Perseverance – Stick With It!

One of the hardest things to do is to stick with it on all of this that we like to do and play with. I think it’s pretty rare that you’ll get it right, or as right as it could be, the first time out of the gate… keep going. Keep trying.

March 17, 2020

Quick Scrabble Update

As I mentioned on Twitter, work got crazy right after we got back from Las Vegas so I had to postpone the game for a little bit. It still hasn’t eased up and I don’t see that happening for the near future so I decided that we need the game to carve out a little time for us.

March 16, 2020

Modeling 101

It’s date night. You are bringing home dinner and then it’s time for a photo shoot. Because how else do we get enough photos for the blog?

March 15, 2020

Sinful Sunday, Sight-Seeing Sunday

It’s always fun when you’re up high, able to see a long way in many different directions and have time to relax, ponder and take in the sights.

March 14, 2020

SoSS 22

Here’s hoping that all of you and yours are healthy. And here’s some fun images and writings to keep you happily distracted.

March 13, 2020

Boobday: Look! Fountains!

You can just make them out… There, on the side.

March 12, 2020

Random Thursday Thoughts From Charmer

I was conducting serious research over what to write today–some might call it scrolling walls and timelines, but I prefer the scholarly view–and found this.

March 11, 2020

Those Curves Though

I have curves too, ya know. But it’s just not the same as hers. Mine aggravate me. Hers, well, hers are amazing and sexy and suggestive and just right.

March 10, 2020

We Don’t Do Sports, Do We?

I’ve never been the traditional sports person. I know — I’m *so* traditional in all other ways. I did the ballet thing for a year when I was little, twirled a baton for a minute, hiked, tennis with my dad and Tae Kwon Do in high school. Yes, the occasional recital or competition, but nothing really.

March 9, 2020

Choices

“Yes or no?”

You are distracted by what you are reading on your screen and mumble, “What?”

March 7, 2020

SoSS 21

Just back from Vegas–we had a great time and got to relax and take some time for us. And now, while I catch up on posts, here are some that caught our eye this week.

March 6, 2020

Boobday: Reflections

Sometimes it’s fun to play with furniture, furnishings and other goodies you find when out and about goofing off on a mini-vacation.

March 5, 2020

Anniversary Scrabble

The crowd goes wild. Snake cringes and hopes that I will lose the handy bag of tiles that are stored in a brown paper wine bag from our trip to Sonoma a few years ago.

March 4, 2020

Don’t Stop Believin’

Topping from the Bottom is the adversary to D/s and FLR type arrangements. I pretty firmly believe this to be the case in so many ways.

I’m not talking about this from a preachy – one true way – standpoint, but rather from a position of “you have to let it work, let it evolve, let it become your own unique thing.”

March 3, 2020