I do have a few items from my parents as does Snake. Most of them are pieces of furniture that have been passed down from our grandparents through our own parents. They are important because they were important to family members.Continue reading “M is for Memories”
The TV is on in the background, but you don’t hear a thing.Continue reading “C is for Control”
I hand you the list of things that must be done before we get on the train this afternoon.Continue reading “L is for Late”
Snake and I are on quite a bit of social media. Twitter obviously, both fun and professional, Instagram, both personal and Charmer, Facebook, both personal and professional, Pinterest, LinkedIn and FetLife. Larger and smaller footprints on each of them, but we are there.Continue reading “S is for Social Media”
It’s been hot and most of the indoor recreation places haven’t been open this summer so we’ve been spending some time decluttering. Not much fun, but at least more productive than watching another cooking show.Continue reading “M is for Model”
Peeking outside, the breeze is blowing the trees. The desert has a way of holding its breath when it is hot and dry. It is like the trees make their leaves just a bit smaller to conserve water and be less visible to the sun. The animals are out only early morning and dusk unless they can survive in the dark.Continue reading “H is for Hot”
The first time that I remember having THAT feeling, I was in 4th grade. It was a Sunday night after dinner and just before the phone rang, I told my mom that grandma was going to call. The phone rang less than a minute later with her telling us that my grandfather had died.Continue reading “S is for Sixth Sense”
Jessica Rabbit, that is. Are any of you surprised that she is my favorite ‘toon? And, yes, it only took 5 days for me to skip around the alphabet…Continue reading “J is for Jessica”
I have never had a good relationship with the idea of fate or destiny or whatever your word of choice is.
There’s something about the touch. I can’t seem to get enough of it, no matter what the stress of the day has brought, or what other things are swirling around, taking that time to touch, massage, relax your muscles…Continue reading “Back(side) Rubs”
Today’s topic is all about hugging. Sounds a bit cheesy perhaps on the outset, but bear with me. Hugging, for us, is a very versatile thing. Hugging is a calming thing, when things go nutty, a recovery thing after a scene or … correction.Continue reading “About That Hugging”
One of the hardest things to do is to stick with it on all of this that we like to do and play with. I think it’s pretty rare that you’ll get it right, or as right as it could be, the first time out of the gate… keep going. Keep trying.Continue reading “Perseverance – Stick With It!”
I have curves too, ya know. But it’s just not the same as hers. Mine aggravate me. Hers, well, hers are amazing and sexy and suggestive and just right.Continue reading “Those Curves Though”
Topping from the Bottom is the adversary to D/s and FLR type arrangements. I pretty firmly believe this to be the case in so many ways.
I’m not talking about this from a preachy – one true way – standpoint, but rather from a position of “you have to let it work, let it evolve, let it become your own unique thing.”Continue reading “Don’t Stop Believin’”
I was having a conversation with a good friend online this morning, talking about the differences between kink and sex and how all of these things weave into relationships and how we see and are with our partners. Then, they said the darndest thing.Continue reading “Inter-Dependency and Kink”
I mean, seriously. There are all sorts of fishnets – from really fine mesh patterns to lacy patterns to broad, open patterns.Continue reading “What Is It About Fishnets?”
We’ve been just being lazy for a bit. Watching the latest episodes, enjoying some wine, nibbling on bits and pieces of cheese and poking at each other.
“Time for my back rub…” you say, popping up off the couch. “And I’d really love a refill on the wine.”Continue reading “Charmer: Time For My Back Rub”
It’s amazing having those key people in your life, seeing that the impact is so much more than the “sum of the parts.”Continue reading “I Am, Because We Are”
You nuzzle in, scooting up against my chest and shoulder as you settle in for the night against me. I swear, at times like this, you were a cat in a former life and I can almost hear you purring. It’s wonderful, relaxed and delicious to fall asleep this way.Continue reading “I Cancelled Your Appointments”
One of the hardest things to manage is a continuous bit of activity from Charmer. This has played out many times – many times it’s a challenge to see if I can last “X” amount of time, or through “X” number of interchanges.Continue reading “Can You Last 15 Minutes? Keep Track!”
Someday I hope we don’t have to be as careful about all of this stuff we’re collectively interested in. It’s weird, if you stay in our relatively small comfort zone bubble where we interact with others with the same acceptance, their own interests, etc. – it all becomes ok.Continue reading “Someday, Will We Flaunt?”
I have said it before – I love the ways that all of this thing we do can be done. Flavors of a theme, different “levels” or activities, different approaches. All of it so finely tuned to what works for you and your partners, it’s pretty cool that there is this assumption that “well, yeah. There’s this thing, but you have to figure out the details for you in what you like.“
Take the good ol’ chastity cage, for example. There’s everything from “rivet that sucker in place” to “we use it for play time” and none is better than any other. It’s what works for you.Continue reading “Motivation, Chastity and Life”
Meeting me at the door with the mistletoe held over your head and that grin – priceless. The fact that you’re dressed in a sleek black lacy bit of lingerie – just adds to the effect. I just about drop everything right there, but the door hasn’t even closed behind me.Continue reading “Bawdy Bells 3 – Naughty or Nice… well, duh.”
Charmer seems to always be looking for interesting ways to introduce chance into the mix of things. OK, let’s be real. Usually “chance” is heavily slanted and influenced by her, to her advantage, but that’s half the fun – knowing that if I were to win a round, things would be that much sweeter… that time anyway.
This is no different.Continue reading “Domme’s Advent Calendar, Or Sexy Time Bingo”
She loves to tease, to edge and to control. It’s not as much about denial, but about the control of the thing that she loves. The randomness (to me) of it all, and the “never knowing when/if” are things she is masterful at, and things she relishes.Continue reading “Apologies for a hair trigger”