Charmer likes to find new and very cool ways to point out the scenery. One of my favorite, is the fishnet pointer system..Continue reading
Some days, she just surprises me. I was headed out to work, “OH, BOOBDAY!” was the thought that races through my mind… Oh, come on, you too?Continue reading
Safewords are a funny thing. Pretty regularly you’ll see “It’s ok to safeword” on twitter, blogs and all of the places we collectively go to read, write and interact. This is critical, important, and something too many people consider leaving out of a D/s or kink scene. Beforehand, it’s easy to be swept up in the draw of a scene, or a relationship, or both.
But, in the heat of the moment, that’s NOT the time to be calling out “zucchini fries!!!!” at the top of your lungs, thinking it’s your safeword. Get that stuff established at the onset.Continue reading
It’s always amazing to me to step back, try to stay in that exact moment, just after. Maybe I’m odd. But in all of the frenzy of life, in all of the ins and outs of life, relationships, the noise… I find more and more that I focus on trying to stay present in important moments.Continue reading
Well, today’s the day – that day of the week where all hell breaks loose, where we can just see the weekend and take a breath – and think about all the things we’ve done this last week…Continue reading
(This is part 2, here’s part 1, important to read first)
See, stuff like this always gets me in trouble, because then I have to continue telling you… the rest of the story, as they say.
My head racing, my body surrendering… that time when you give in to the animal side of things is in full swing. I feel that knowing head-rush, that urgency. It’s delicious.Continue reading
Pink doesn’t tend to be my go-to color for much so this prompt didn’t actually start with the color but with the artist. She is one of my favorite artists for her attitude and love and willingness to take risks.Continue reading
I am fortunate–well, some might say unlucky–to live in a place with sunshine about 286 days out of the year. Yes, it does get hot in the summer and we rarely get snow but the sunshine is abundant.Continue reading
I’ve always been a writer. I was the kid who wrote stories on summer break when I wasn’t reading them. I majored in journalism and have done a great deal of technical writing in my job. So, what is the difference when I blog?Continue reading