There are days when writing this blog is easy. Two or three posts will come out with no effort at all. Other times, I scan memes and other blog posts and I stare at a blank screen. Today, of course, is the latter.
Continue reading RestlessCategory Archives: Life
Bohemian Rhapsody
Yes, this could possibly be a really strange thought process even for me but it reminds me of our relationship. Why????
Continue reading Bohemian RhapsodyMovies and TV and Plays, Oh My!
I started writing this post on Sunday for a completely different reason but trashed it because I couldn’t come up with a raison d’etre. See? I can be fancy.
Continue reading Movies and TV and Plays, Oh My!From comment: “What makes you so special?”
We’ve not received the volume of negative comments that others do, for that, I’m not at all unhappy. But we did receive one the other day that actually had me thinking.
In essence, (paraphrased) “What makes you so special? FLR and D/s and these things all of you write about don’t make you better than (me) and I’m sick of reading about it. People without this aren’t less happy, less sexy, less (fill in the blank)… Stop dictating how people should live!”
In essence, SHUT UP ABOUT IT.
Continue reading From comment: “What makes you so special?”Snippet of Life
From our DM this morning…
Continue reading Snippet of LifePerfectionism
Do I struggle with perfectionism? Absolutely. In fact, as I started to write this, I went searching for the “perfect” quote to match my thoughts about perfection and started spinning on which one was the “right” one.
Continue reading PerfectionismSnake’s Body
Is amazing as you’ve seen and I love it.
While I enjoy looking at attractive bodies, it doesn’t tend to correlate to sexual interest. I need to have that special connection to someone before that happens.
Continue reading Snake’s BodySnake’s Perspective: Lifestyle D/sFLR
This is a second part to Charmer’s post, here.
I don’t get as many questions about things as Charmer does – but I do get a lot of assumptions. I get assumptions about what it means to be in an FLR with D/s structure and how it all works for us. It’s odd how people will see a video, read a story someplace and assume that that’s both reality and the same for everyone.
Continue reading Snake’s Perspective: Lifestyle D/sFLRCharmer’s Perspective: Lifestyle Dominance
Oh, you’re a Domme? I get that question at least a few times a week. However, it is phrased, from genuine interest to titillation, there are definite assumptions made about me, Snake and us. Some true, some false and some downright laugh out loud funny.
Continue reading Charmer’s Perspective: Lifestyle DominanceTMI and Good Bones
I love reading the TMI Tuesday questions and last week was one that I wrote to Snake about in our personal journal. The question was: Love is made of many components. What are your top three components of love?
Continue reading TMI and Good BonesFinally Figured Out My Kink
I always see these checklist of stuff that people (may) like to do, be, participate in, have done, whatever. I’m sure you’ve seen them – my favorite was a Periodic Table of Kink where it showed, by “type” different things people may be interested in. My OCD loves that it’s broken into the different areas and ideas.
But, of course, as soon as you start really looking, you find that there are so very many things (let alone Rule 34) that people like to do. You can see this on Fetlife too – 1000’s of kinks, from situational to objects to every combination you can imagine.
Continue reading Finally Figured Out My KinkFather’s Day
First, happy Father’s Day to all of you out there getting it done, helping out with families, taking care of the more important things in life – your partners, your families.
Second, just a heads-up, this won’t be about sexy times… just about life and influences and some reflection. I think it’s really fascinating to see the influences and how they play out (including in our own FLR) over time. For pure sexiness, check out Charmer’s Sinful Sunday. 🙂
Continue reading Father’s DayChange in the Air
I have lived in the desert for most of my adult life, but I have to think that the change in seasons might be as clear other places.
Continue reading Change in the AirResults of Round One of the Game
We finished the last round of the game on Friday morning and I promised (OK, teased) the results would be forthcoming.
Continue reading Results of Round One of the GameRoom 101 – Fears, Domme-side and Life
I love that this Food for Thought Friday ties to George Orwell and 1984. This was one of my favorite books as a tween. I was raised by a father who thought that all small children should be read classics and I vividly remember him reading Kim by Rudyard Kipling to me when I was 5. So, it is no surprise that I read all of the classics that I could find.
I don’t have a lot of fears. [Snake: I can vouch for this – from a sexy-time perspective and a life perspective] I do seriously dislike jumping bugs. I hate driving but definitely more of a control freak issue. Anything I can’t control as much as possible makes me uncomfortable. But I can’t say that it goes to fear.
Charmer Silliness
Game update: Today is day 5. We did have the one tie which really surprised me. But please participate in the polls. I want to win–and landslides are always better than by a nose!
Continue reading Charmer SillinessGame Progress and Aladdin
So far, one person has won both days. This could bode really well or, well, not so well for Snake. Stay tuned….
Continue reading Game Progress and AladdinNew game….and you get to help
Snake and I have had a crazy May. Unexpected trip out of town for eight days to deal with family stuff. It was good but incredibly stressful.
Continue reading New game….and you get to helpLaces and lace…
When life tries to get to you, it’s time to bring out the sexy bra….
Continue reading Laces and lace…Two Strong Women
My mom. Snake’s mom. They were both strong but I’m not sure if they could have found another way to be different if they tried.
Continue reading Two Strong WomenFire
In our private blog, Snake sent this quote to me:
Continue reading FireCars and Pools and Balconies…Oh, My!
Snake and I started dating at the end of high school and through college before he got an apartment and we eventually got married. Privacy was almost non-existent between families and roommates so we ended up having to find private time…outside the bedroom.
Continue reading Cars and Pools and Balconies…Oh, My!Sunday Thoughts…
Completely disconnected ones at that…
Continue reading Sunday Thoughts…Happy Birthday, Snake…
Just to celebrate, I thought I would share some of my favorite memories of the two of us..
Continue reading Happy Birthday, Snake…How Do I Get My Wife/Girlfriend to Dominate Me?
Miss Pearl has been writing about the dearth of information about how, exactly, do you, as a guy, go about getting your wife or girlfriend to dominate you, to be in charge…
This is a look at how it’s come about for us…
Continue reading How Do I Get My Wife/Girlfriend to Dominate Me?