Chastity Archives - Steeled Snake

October 11, 2021October 11, 2021

L is for Lock(tober)

Locktober is a way for us to have a little fun with something that isn’t just a once a year thing.

September 24, 2021September 24, 2021

C is for Cleaning Day

Rule is that the cage is on…but it’s cleaning day.

September 15, 2021September 15, 2021

S is for Steeled Snake

Our blog is almost exactly 6 1/2 years old. It’s been a journey of D/s and photography with a lot of laughter and games thrown in the mix.

September 14, 2021September 14, 2021

T is for Tails

It’s important to be well-dressed when you head out to work, yes?

I mean, proper shirt, all of that.

September 4, 2021September 4, 2021

E is for Edgy

Snake wrote the other day about 100 edges. We had been doing a boot camp weekend which we do from time to time and he had been doing a really good job of anticipating and following directions.

August 31, 2021August 31, 2021

R is for Remote

“Get undressed and unlock.” She had “that look.”

August 30, 2021August 30, 2021

Just as I send pictures to Snake each morning, he sends at least one a day to me as well. I say at least because there are days when he is is tasked with sending a lot more than one. Sometimes just because and sometimes they are proof if he has a specific task to do.

August 26, 2021August 26, 2021

C is for Chastity Cages and D/s

Chastity has been a really interesting physical and thought experiment run with me. We’re now into this full-time since 2015 – this grand process of FLR, D/s and the chastity cage. I never really anticipated what it would be like, the impact it might have and the cool learning it’s lead to.

June 23, 2021August 18, 2021

Improvement (not as in home-improvement)

Improvement is a tough one. It’s hard to talk about improving something with this thing we do, without making it all mechanical and such. At least, for me that’s the case.

At the same time, it can be really effective over time – you may look back in the future at how, why or when you did “this or that” and realize just how much things have changed. Here’s a quick look at how I try to keep this all swimming around my head.

May 27, 2021

G is for Gap

We do have a pretty substantial orgasm gap in our relationship. The unusual part is that our gap is definitely in my favor.

May 11, 2021August 18, 2021

S is for Surprising Influence

Influence is a weird beast to consider. When you think about those that have an impact on your life, it’s all over the board. The good, the bad, the bad-at-the-time-but-good-looking-back-on-it ones.

April 6, 2021

M is for Morning Mug

“That’s not the mug I set out for you this morning,” you say as you watch me pour the water for my tea.

March 27, 2021

R is for Results (Scrabble That Is)

The Scrabble game started last Friday and ended on Thursday. In case you missed the tweets, here are the rolls:

March 23, 2021

I is for It’s Not Fair

She’s always loved the irrational modifiers that she dreams up to apply to games. Scrabble being a favorite; it’s this weird mix of “you have to make these odd words” or “this many words with more than “X” letters…” or “Whoops… sorrrrrrry THAT didn’t work out as planned.

March 18, 2021

S is for Scrabble

A couple of weeks ago, I posted a poll on Twitter asking about starting a new game. I asked if I should do another Scrabble, Trivial Pursuit, CAH or a new game. While the poll results did appear to be tied at 35.3% for both a new one and Scrabble, they were skewed by a mistaken vote for Trivial Pursuit that I was asked to change.

March 9, 2021August 18, 2021

C is for (Steeled Snake) Charmer

I don’t know if we have ever told the stories about our pen names, to be honest. The names actually came before we started the blog because we needed Twitter handles.

March 4, 2021March 4, 2021

D is for Denial… Torture

“I need you, inside me, now. “

I was high as a kite hearing that. It was early in the morning, we had the house to ourselves, she has THAT look in her eyes. I’m raging against the cage, needing to feel her, wanting to feel her.

“Unlock. Get back here.”

February 25, 2021August 18, 2021

C is for Chastity: That Overnight Pressure

MMMmmmmmm… She says in her sleep… I think.

February 16, 2021August 18, 2021

Realities of Chastity – Suddenly, it is Chafing!

I’ve been doing this chastity thing now for several years – and life happens along the way. I wanted to quickly share something I’ve had to re-learn just recently.

January 23, 2021August 18, 2021

D is for Discipline

As a Domme, I am all about discipline. We have rules and expectations that are clear and pretty straightforward. Exceptions, of course, for life but for the most part, our D/s life runs smoothly.

November 5, 2020August 18, 2021

S is for Salmon

I’m going to put out a really unpopular opinion or preference or however you would like to characterize it. I don’t like salmon.

March 21, 2020August 18, 2021

SoSS 23

Hope everyone is taking care of yourselves and each other–and here are some things to distract in a fun way.

March 17, 2020

Quick Scrabble Update

As I mentioned on Twitter, work got crazy right after we got back from Las Vegas so I had to postpone the game for a little bit. It still hasn’t eased up and I don’t see that happening for the near future so I decided that we need the game to carve out a little time for us.

February 29, 2020August 18, 2021

SoSS 20

Last post of February–and last Feb Photo Fest picture of 2020! Hope you’ve checked out all of the wonderful images from everyone this month. Here are some writings and images to brighten and inspire…

February 24, 2020

A Night Out on the Town…

It’s been a great time in the city, we’ve been having fun finding bars, clubs, music, bands, places to play machines while taking in the sights and sounds and so much more. Tonight, we opted for a trip to that famous country bar up the road – the one with the bull, the saddle bar stools and, last time we were there, the mud wrestling…

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