I’ve had a lot of great days. I’ve also had a lot of bad ones and even more average days.
Continue reading “B is for Best Day”A is for Advice
I’ve never really given or asked for a lot of advice. Cynically maybe, it feels like when I’ve been asked for advice, it isn’t really that they want advice. They want me to tell them that what they want to do is right rather than really wanting advice.
Continue reading “A is for Advice”C is for Cats
We are primarily a family of cats. We’ve had two dogs and do love dogs, but cats fit our lifestyle.
Continue reading “C is for Cats”M is for Mischief
I’ve never really “thought” of myself as a mischief maker, but I probably am. I guess I’m a bit like the Mae West quote: “When I’m good, I’m very good. But when I’m bad I’m better.”
Continue reading “M is for Mischief”T is for Time Travel
The idea of time travel is always fascinating. I think the popularity of Doctor Who since 1963 until current day, with a hiatus, is because we all want the idea of being able to see different times.
Continue reading “T is for Time Travel”G is for Gap
We do have a pretty substantial orgasm gap in our relationship. The unusual part is that our gap is definitely in my favor.
Continue reading “G is for Gap”S is for Social Media
As I’ve written before, I’m not a terribly social person. I am an introvert and too many people are just not my thing.
Continue reading “S is for Social Media”H is for (the) Hunt
I hadn’t actually been planning a sequel, but I got several requests for a continuation so here it is. Part 1 is here.
You open the envelope and a piece of paper slides out. On it is a picture of a specific bottle of wine and the telltale lip kiss.
Continue reading “H is for (the) Hunt”E is for Exposed
There are definitely different levels to being exposed on social media. The first obvious one is that we both use a pseudonym and not very many people know the true names of Snake and Charmer. Kinda makes it sound like a fantasy or spy novel….
Continue reading “E is for Exposed”C is for (Steeled Snake) Charmer
I don’t know if we have ever told the stories about our pen names, to be honest. The names actually came before we started the blog because we needed Twitter handles.
Continue reading “C is for (Steeled Snake) Charmer”P is for Pizza
We actually don’t have a lot of traditions in the Snake Den. Or at least not ones that I consider strange.
Continue reading “P is for Pizza”D is for Discipline
As a Domme, I am all about discipline. We have rules and expectations that are clear and pretty straightforward. Exceptions, of course, for life but for the most part, our D/s life runs smoothly.
Continue reading “D is for Discipline”H is for (Bad) Habits
While I could enumerate a lot of silly bad habits like biting my nails when I am really stressed or procrastination or whatever, those aren’t my real bad habit.
Continue reading “H is for (Bad) Habits”Bawdy Bell #8 — S is for Stocking(s)
I rarely wear stockings. I think most of that comes from living in a place where it is hot 3/4 of the year. It is hard to want to put on stockings when it is 105 outside.
Continue reading “Bawdy Bell #8 — S is for Stocking(s)”L is for Longing
What is the feeling of longing? Is it wanting something a lot? Where is the line where something goes from being wanted to being longed for?
Continue reading “L is for Longing”N is for No Way
I actually wasn’t going to write for this prompt–I felt like I really didn’t have much to say because tickling is not part of our play or even life.
Continue reading “N is for No Way”H is for Haunting
I thought I’d be different and try to combine haunting and Halloween in a poem…not my usual writing style, but let’s hope it works.
Continue reading “H is for Haunting”U is for Us
As part of the 4Thoughts meme, we have updated our About Us Page. I have linked the old one here.
Continue reading “U is for Us”K is for Kink
I struggle with the distinct line between a fetish and a kink. I rationally know the difference, but they seem to have overlap in a strange way.
Continue reading “K is for Kink”T is for Teachers
I had a lot of good teachers over the years. Most fit in the good category with a couple in the horrible column. But, I can think of two amazing teachers.
Continue reading “T is for Teachers”T is for Time
I find that as I read prompts, I tend to have an initial gut level reaction to them as either “I can totally write for that,” or “I have nothing to say about that.” Defining moment felt like it was just something that I didn’t feel related to my life. There was never one big moment that shifted my focus.
Continue reading “T is for Time”L is for Liberating
If you had asked me what was liberating last year, I’m not sure what my answer would have been. It wasn’t really a thought because I wasn’t feeling constrained.
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