It’s been one of those times, the times where you push and push and push and pull back. Then push more. I end up a hot mess. I swear, to you, it’s like having a toy, a challenge.
Continue reading “The Aftermath: Dreamy Boobday”What Is It About Fishnets?
I mean, seriously. There are all sorts of fishnets – from really fine mesh patterns to lacy patterns to broad, open patterns.
Continue reading “What Is It About Fishnets?”Thin Lace, Cleavage and Shadows
We thought that perhaps if we could do more “Spring-time” colors, those of you that are weaving our way through winter would feel a bit of warmth, so to speak….
Continue reading “Thin Lace, Cleavage and Shadows”A Valentine’s Day Boobday
Today’s boobday is a heart-felt boobday shot…
Continue reading “A Valentine’s Day Boobday”Charmer: Time For My Back Rub
We’ve been just being lazy for a bit. Watching the latest episodes, enjoying some wine, nibbling on bits and pieces of cheese and poking at each other.
“Time for my back rub…” you say, popping up off the couch. “And I’d really love a refill on the wine.”
Continue reading “Charmer: Time For My Back Rub”Hand Porn and Chastity Cages
It’s a weird thought that we’re several years into this all now. I can’t believe all that has changed, how much I’ve grown up mentally, how much I’ve learned about me, about us.
Continue reading “Hand Porn and Chastity Cages”Chastity Cage, Caught in a Net
“I dunno whut happened, I was just strolling along and … BAM!”
Continue reading “Chastity Cage, Caught in a Net”Friday is Boobday!
White, frilly, thin material. I mean, it’s just begging for a boobday shot, ya know?
Continue reading “Friday is Boobday!”I Am, Because We Are
It’s amazing having those key people in your life, seeing that the impact is so much more than the “sum of the parts.”
Continue reading “I Am, Because We Are”Elust – Amazing Sexy Writing from Around the Web

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Welcome to Elust 126–
The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #125? Start with the rules, come back January 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!
~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~
2020, the year I stop masturbating.
I Am Fat: On Fat Acceptance and Fat Shaming
~ Featured Post by our Guest Editor(Cara’s Picks) ~
Continue reading “Elust – Amazing Sexy Writing from Around the Web”
Sinful Sunday: Light
One. Single. Light.
Continue reading “Sinful Sunday: Light”Feb Photo Fest 2020 – Lounging
We’re excited to be taking part in the Feb Photo Fest meme this year – it’s proven to be a huge challenge and one that lets (encourages) you to explore your inner photographer/model/sexy side!
Check out 2019, 2018, 2017 here on SteeledSnake while you’re here. 🙂
Continue reading “Feb Photo Fest 2020 – Lounging”Boobday: Cleavage on the Prowl
It’s Friday/Boobday and we’re here to represent!
Continue reading “Boobday: Cleavage on the Prowl”I Cancelled Your Appointments
You nuzzle in, scooting up against my chest and shoulder as you settle in for the night against me. I swear, at times like this, you were a cat in a former life and I can almost hear you purring. It’s wonderful, relaxed and delicious to fall asleep this way.
Continue reading “I Cancelled Your Appointments”Sinful Sunday Lace and Bows
What’s going on here this weekend? Oh nothing. Just lazing around and wearing fun lace and bows…
Continue reading “Sinful Sunday Lace and Bows”Boobday – Sssssoffffttt
This blanket is one of those that is just so soft and fluffy. Isn’t it glorious? I mean, have you ever seen a blanket that looked so comfortable?
Continue reading “Boobday – Sssssoffffttt”Can You Last 15 Minutes? Keep Track!
One of the hardest things to manage is a continuous bit of activity from Charmer. This has played out many times – many times it’s a challenge to see if I can last “X” amount of time, or through “X” number of interchanges.
Continue reading “Can You Last 15 Minutes? Keep Track!”Fire and Skin
Arizona doesn’t get much in terms of really critical “must get warmer” weather, but it’s still great to fire up the fireplace and relax.
Continue reading “Fire and Skin”Boobday: May I Have a Refill?
Charmer has a way of getting my attention when it’s time for a touch more of wine. I thought I’d share one such example…
Continue reading “Boobday: May I Have a Refill?”Someday, Will We Flaunt?
Someday I hope we don’t have to be as careful about all of this stuff we’re collectively interested in. It’s weird, if you stay in our relatively small comfort zone bubble where we interact with others with the same acceptance, their own interests, etc. – it all becomes ok.
Continue reading “Someday, Will We Flaunt?”Not a Wet T-Shirt
It’s an amazing thing to surprise your partner with a different look, a different scenario, even just different words.
Sometimes, the simplest little thing – just a few lights, a super-suggestive top, the right look… is all it takes.
Continue reading “Not a Wet T-Shirt”Festive Boobday
It’s never too late for holiday lights, right?
Or… is it ever TOO EARLY?! Newp. Happy Boobday!
Continue reading “Festive Boobday”Motivation, Chastity and Life
I have said it before – I love the ways that all of this thing we do can be done. Flavors of a theme, different “levels” or activities, different approaches. All of it so finely tuned to what works for you and your partners, it’s pretty cool that there is this assumption that “well, yeah. There’s this thing, but you have to figure out the details for you in what you like.“
Take the good ol’ chastity cage, for example. There’s everything from “rivet that sucker in place” to “we use it for play time” and none is better than any other. It’s what works for you.
Continue reading “Motivation, Chastity and Life”Shadowy Cleavage
Early morning light, a little (!) bit of a tease, having fun with a come-hither look… I’m all about that.
Continue reading “Shadowy Cleavage”Boobday: Our Xmas Tree!
In the spirit of the holidays, we thought we’d share the Snake Den’s Xmas tree with everyone. It came out quite lovely this year, don’t you think? So many great decorations and colors…
Continue reading “Boobday: Our Xmas Tree!”