One of my favorite things is my day collar, it comes off if water is around, but that’s it. It goes really well with that other piece of metallic control as well…
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The Inspection Zone
I walk in the back door and you’re standing there with an envelope. You smile, hand me the envelope and walk away with a touch of your finger to my lips.
I put my things down and open the envelope.
Sinful Sunday #53 – A Little Help?
Every now and then I’m left with a dilemma. Does that mean tie off or undo?
I know my typical choice when asked for help, but at the same time, I know the look I’ll get if I choose wrong. 🙂
Sometimes it’s worth it, I have to admit.
Get the leash. You need to think…
Sometimes it’s about protocols, and sometimes it’s about “you need to just sit for a few minutes and think about things.” This is one of the latter, I suppose.
Pain, Pleasure and Restraint(s)
It seems such a cliche’ thing that you hear all the time in this community.
Be careful what you wish for. You may get it.
This was certainly the case this time.
Boobday – I Love Center Closures… and Openings
What can I say? Is there ANYONE that doesn’t like front opening sexy things?! I mean, seriously.
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Elust 84
Photo courtesy of A to sub-Bee
Welcome to Elust #84 –
The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #85 Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!
~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~
Lightweight
About Those “Apple Thighs”
Why the Hell Haven’t I Rebelled Yet?
~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~
IDENTITY – hiding the evidence
friday flash–service
~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~
Sinful Sunday #51 – Late Night Glass of Wine
There are times when it’s just the simple stuff. Lights out, relaxing, enjoying each other, a glass of wine, just… there.
I really wanted to play with light and shadow and this turned out to be a fun go at it.
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The One with the Rainbow Zipper
The total number of days between Monday, May 2nd, 2016 and Tuesday, July 12th, 2016 is 71 days.
This is equal to 2 months and 10 days.
This does not include the end date, so it’s accurate if you’re measuring your age in days, or the total days between the start and end date. But if you want the duration of an event that includes both the starting date and the ending date, then it would actually be 72 days.
If you’re counting workdays or weekends, there are 51 weekdays and 20 weekend days.
If you include the end date of Jul 12, 2016 which is a Tuesday, then there would be 52 weekdays and 20 weekend days including both the starting Monday and the ending Tuesday.
71 days is equal to 10 weeks and 1 day.
The total time span from 2016-05-02 to 2016-07-12 is 1,704 hours.
This is equivalent to 102,240 minutes.
You can also convert 71 days to 6,134,400 seconds.
That’s a long stint.
Surprise Service Submission
“Honey, can you come in here a minute please?”
It’s all I hear from the other side of the house. I wander through, trying to figure out where you are and finally find you in the library, in your personal space, with your books and books and more books. This is where you come to escape. But when I look at you, you’re in what can only be called classic librarian mode. Sort of.
You’re there, hair up, glasses on, pencil in your mouth, facing the other way, leaned back in your most comfortable reading chair. You’re in this dreamy state that I think I recognize…
Boobday – No No Strings Attached
It’s great to leave a little to the imagination, yes? I personally prefer as little as possible most times. 🙂
Of Metal Rings and Control
This is actually a ball weight – but it makes a fun cock ring too – of the bolt-on variety.
She certainly knows how to keep things interesting.
Dancin’ (Most) of the Night Away
I see you across the club, having a drink, dancing with various people, just generally swaying to the music and having a great time. I, on the other hand, can’t take my eyes off you. You’re in this flirty-wispy short country-style skirt and have on boots and an incredible hat. Watching you dance, line dance and just, well, watching you is becoming hazardous. I’m pretty sure you’ve noticed me staring.
I’m doing my best to look away, to not be overly obvious. I grab some liquid courage and have a couple of drinks to take off my nervous edge, but when I look back, I can’t find you anywhere. I start to panic, thinking I’ve missed my chance. I slump into my chair and try to keep telling myself that you’ll be back. But I can’t help feeling like I totally blew it.
Sinful Sunday #48 – Gentle Roughness
One of the things about doing the Sinful Sunday meme is that it lets you play with all sorts of things in terms of themes, picture techniques and locations and the like.
My favorite is that it gives me the regular excuse to take pictures of my favorite subject.
Just a Touch
Sometimes (often), it’s all about the touch. That’s simply all it takes.
Elust 83 – So Much Unf!
Photo courtesy of Holden and Camille
Welcome to Elust #83 –
The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #84 Start with the rules, come back July 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!
~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~
London Crows and London Kisses
You Say You Want to Cook for Me
~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~
Community. Respect. Friendship. Fucking.
~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~
Boobday — Tousled Coverup
I love the excuse to play with Charmer’s hair. (Dramatic pause while smart comments are made about “yeah, Snake, hair. That’s it.”)
There’s just something about ALMOST covering up…
Just a Peek
It’s fun to play with “less is more” – but I loved how the steel came out on this. It’s great fun to tease and Commando is fun and, well, a tad sensitive.
Sinful Sunday #46 — Skinny Dipping
Swimming in the dark is a completely different experience. Something about the light in the water (or lack of light in the water) and the closeness of the sky… it all comes together for just a completely unique feel to the water and the time in it.
Skinny dipping just ups the ante on that, and adds a whole new dimension… so to speak.
Red Buns, Staying Put
There are many aspects of This Thing We Do (TTWD) that *seem* really mental or *seem* really physical. But so many times, it ends up being both.
For me, that’s the case with impact play. Honestly, I went into it thinking it was a mental “game” – just dealing with it and that I could get past it. But the physical side of things surprises me every. single. time.
I’m “in training” I suppose – I’ve had times where we warm up and I feel pretty good about my control and response and even love it. But then the times that come with no warm-up… not my favorite thing. I’m still working on those times.
What I’d Do If…
It all starts by kissing, just kissing. It’s one of the most erotic, sensual things we can do – and every second of it is powerful. I kiss down your neck, just there at the base of your neck on your shoulder. I start with light kisses, and move to little nibbles and lingering kisses. I can tell I’ve hit some of the right spots – your breathing changes ever so slightly in just those spots…
You reach out, grabbing the back of my head, embedding your hands in my hair, then squeezing a handful to use as a lever. You’re steering me a bit now, already taking charge of where you want me. You pull me up, kissing me deeply nibbling on me as you go. Then you push me back to the other side and release just a bit, letting me wander down your neck, to your shoulder, then out a bit and back.
Boobday – Ah, Pool-Side
Summer is definitely here. And that means all sorts of fun with bathing suits and, well, wet t-shirts. Darn clingy, those shirts can be!
What’s a guy to do except, you know, grab a camera and record it for posterity!?
Just remember, I am always at your service.
A Game [was] Afoot
Our recent weekend Scrabble challenge [and results] took place over Memorial Day weekend.
See? I can be involved in the challenge AND be patriotic.
Scrabble Part 3 – The Results
Well… THAT was fun!
We started out the weekend with a bang, but ran into time and, well, privacy constraints… but still made a go of it. The overall rules (linked above) said I had to get to at least 12 tiles.
But you have to know, going in, that in my heart, I’m an engineer. So you know too that I would be working out that magical nexus of risk/reward in terms of reducing or extending my wait time. Of course it’s based on letters actually picked, but it certainly becomes an issue as you work through the challenge.
Making Dinner
When I walk in you ask me to tell you about my day – we start some typical banter, I realize that everything I say is met with “mmmhmmm” and “oh, I see…” in an exaggerated way. You could not care less what I’m talking about and you are somewhere else as we get things around to start making dinner.
I try to find out what’s up, but you’re having none of it, egging me in to tell you more about my day. But you stay disjointed, truly uninterested in this comic way. I finally start to give up and start to move away and you stop.