First, happy Father’s Day to all of you out there getting it done, helping out with families, taking care of the more important things in life – your partners, your families.
Second, just a heads-up, this won’t be about sexy times… just about life and influences and some reflection. I think it’s really fascinating to see the influences and how they play out (including in our own FLR) over time. For pure sexiness, check out Charmer’s Sinful Sunday. 🙂
Continue reading Father’s Day“Sometimes I just sits and thinks…”
Continue reading Sinful Sunday: Sexy Thoughts and ReflectionSome insist there are no plants in the desert, just dust, dirt and yes, horses everywhere.
Continue reading Boobday: See? Desert FaunaWhen I walk into the hallway, all the lights are on – there are even additional lamps out there. So much so that the light is blaring at me. All I can think is that this must be the weirdest setup to whatever you have planned, that I have ever had.
Continue reading You’re in… Dark.The prompt for “Food for Thought” this week is mistakes. Had me thinking about all the things I’ve learned about our FLR that I didn’t expect, about the whole D/s side of our lives that we’re always tuning and tweaking…
Continue reading Mistakes I’ve Made In Our FLRThe prompt last week was soft focus (so we shared a shot through some interesting netting fabric). This week is another from that same bit of work…
Continue reading This time, with focusOnce again, boobday – celebrating all things Boobs!
There was a point where, once we finally plunked down just a little bit more for that 4,235 point restraint system, I realized it was for real. I remember it pretty clearly. Before, it was like “yeah, I can move, I can even probably pull loose and stop things if I wanted to, just… because.
Continue reading But it’s a simple chain!Charmer has written about some of the nutty stuff going on – from cars to family to all of the impact things have on normal life. It’s just a bunch of junk that swirls around everyone in life.
Continue reading Don’t Forget Yourselves in the Crazy TimesToday”s sinful sunday prompt was “soft focus” – hopefully this achieved that.
Continue reading Sheer Cleavage…First, of course, today is Boobday! Funky Blue Boobday (FBB) apparently…
Continue reading Boobday and Another Game is AfootSometimes I swear it’s the little cues that are the hardest to manage. They tell the most, while at the same time being the most difficult to learn. Laughter is one of those at times…
Continue reading LaughterOnce again, it’s that time of the week, that day of the week…
Continue reading Iiiiiiiiiiit’s Boobday!
Photo courtesy of My Controlled Ascent
Boobday is back and so are we – some very cool blues today for a great meme…
I came around the corner, and BOOM. Yep. THIS is what she’s greeting me with these days.
Continue reading Boobday… What? Just stretching here.One of the things I really dislike about all of the things we collectively tweet and write about is the fact that we have to hide behind alternate identities, alternate contacts, and be protective of our IRL lives.
In fact, for many, malicious exposure would damage or destroy careers, families, etc. – because “that’s just weird.” Uh huh. Sure.
Continue reading Unmentionable LifestyleI spent a lot of time driving over the weekend, and between music in the headphones and the road, my mind was multi-tasking and thinking about how I remember different… sessions. I realized as I thought back over these times that one thing kept coming up. Sound.
Continue reading Weird How We Recall Scenes, D/sBut at least it didn’t include the cat.
Continue reading Outtakes – Looks like a dead body!Today’s boobday shot is Charmer’s turn to towel off…
Continue reading Toweling Off (Her)Playtime is a great thing. Playtime can be a torturous time too though. Charmer tends to lean hard on the torture side of things – sometimes physical, sometimes mental. This is a perfect example of one of those times.
She likes to step all over my inability to talk about anything sexual, to answer direct, specific questions about something that’s going on. Of course, once she finds one of those soft spots, she pokes and pokes and pokes at it, just because she can.
Continue reading Elabor8: “Tell me more…”Miss Pearl has been writing about the dearth of information about how, exactly, do you, as a guy, go about getting your wife or girlfriend to dominate you, to be in charge…
This is a look at how it’s come about for us…
Continue reading How Do I Get My Wife/Girlfriend to Dominate Me?Happy Sinful Sunday everyone – hoping you have a great day and weekend overall!
Continue reading Toweling Off…D/s and kink and all of this thing we do is a challenging beast. I’ve written before about some of the challenges of changing up your relationships (like FLR and D/s in general) and what it means to at least our dynamic – from learning how things are to be done, to figuring out how to communicate better.
But one of the things that constantly tugs at all of this is this feeling that “well, if that was fun, imagine what it would be like if we did twice as much!”
Continue reading Change, and Chasing “More”From SteelChrmr’s post:
It’s very quiet over here, like I am home alone. But I’m not. The lights are off and it’s dark but I can sense you. In the dark. Waiting. Watching.I fumble for the light switch by the door. “No,” comes from somewhere in front of me. I hear a noise slightly to my left. I turn, unsure of where you are or what I’m hearing until I see the bright flame…
I see the silhouette of your body in the faintest of the light as my eyes adjust. You’re in the tub, lounging, and I can’t even see enough to know if you’re smiling. I can just make out the outline of your breast in the candlelight.
“Stand there” you say as your hand passes by the light, pointing.
Continue reading The Story Continues…