FLR, D/s, Life and Kink
I”ve been learning more about cooking and having a great time with it. It’s been a great time learning about different ways to cook, different things to make, all of that. I’m no expert at it, and learning at about 100 miles an hour whenever I can. But I’ve also been able to take over on a few meals a week.
Today is one of those. Charmer is deciding to both help, and keep me motivated. Or distracted. Or motivationally distracted. Or Stinging. Or …
Continue reading “Hot… Dinner Prep Assistance”We’ve always dreamed of having a vacation away. Like, really away. We’ve cleared calendars. Actually left behind the phones, let everyone know we were traveling to the ends of the earth, so… good luck reaching us. It might not be that remote in reality, but we planned a completely dedicated, carnal time.
Continue reading “Carnal Retreat”The prompt for the week is “from below” – and it struck me (pun intended) that really, from below, could be all sorts of fun things.
Continue reading “From Below… or “the last thing my body may see…””I’ve always loved front-closing bras… something about them is just so much fun. Can’t quite put my finger on it. Oh, wait, UNCLASPING THEM… That’s it.
Continue reading “Boobday: Unclasped…”The morning ritual is pretty typical – getting ready for work, getting out the door, heading in to work. Normal stuff. But it’s never far over the horizon to change things up, to try and make things…. “unusual.”
Continue reading “It’s Complicated”That’s what I imagine her saying in this. Then waiting.
Continue reading “Boobday: My eyes are up HERE.”We were recently visiting some folks out of state and noticed these pieces of art throughout the room, bathroom at the hotel. We thought it might be nice to show a spruced-up version…
Continue reading “Sinful Sunday: A new take on hotel art”‘Cuz showers are important.
Continue reading “Boobday – Shower Anyone?”It’s always this back and forth – no one wants to give up absolute control, but then there’s that point where it just, well, feels too good to fight. That point, and the different phases leading up to it? Amazing and fun and so cool to experience.
Continue reading “The Look of Pleasure”It strikes me that this whole thing (this thing that we do, TTTWD) takes a LOT of heavy lifting at times. Sometimes it’s working out details. A lot of times it’s working to keep an open mind (we’re going to do WHAT??!) and other times, it’s being mindful that you’re trying to change your own behaviors along the way.
Continue reading “Sometimes, A Reset”Yeah, yeah. I know. Charmer has a way of putting those games together (scrabble, trivial pursuit, even cards against humanity) and then putting these pictures together as my thing to do if I lose. And. interestingly, I typically don’t just lose. I get killed.
Continue reading “Sinful Sunday: Snake, Hands and Strategic Placement”I loved the different textures in this shot – something about fluffy next to drippy next to skin.
Continue reading “Boobday: Textures”We’ve not received the volume of negative comments that others do, for that, I’m not at all unhappy. But we did receive one the other day that actually had me thinking.
In essence, (paraphrased) “What makes you so special? FLR and D/s and these things all of you write about don’t make you better than (me) and I’m sick of reading about it. People without this aren’t less happy, less sexy, less (fill in the blank)… Stop dictating how people should live!”
In essence, SHUT UP ABOUT IT.
Continue reading “From comment: “What makes you so special?””I always like a little black dress…
Continue reading “Sinful Sunday – A Night Out, A Night In”I saw this, and all I could think of was the flirty line – “can you please help me with my zipper?”
Continue reading “Boobday: ‘Scuse Me, Can You Lend a Hand?”It seems like I should have great control over my own body. I’ve always worked to have the strength (and will) to work through whatever I can foresee happening. Of course, that’s not a perfect goal, but it IS something I actively reach for. This runs the full range, from O-control to being able to do fancy-schmancy dance moves.
But this isn’t a fancy-schmancy dance moves kinda site, ya know? So you know where I’m headed…
Continue reading “Bodies are Weird. A Different Story of Betrayal – Body Betrayal.”So, of course, Charmer won the game that was built around that inhumane cards…of game. I will never forgive everyone for simply picking incorrectly – I mean, would it have killed you to pick mine? Not a single person wrote to ask which one…
My penance – 2 hours of torture of her choosing.
Continue reading “2 Hours of Sexual Torture… that really was.”Having some fun with splish-splashy times here in the Southwest of the US.
Continue reading “Sinful Sunday – Topless Eruption”The weather has definitely turned here and we’re headed into the summer days of sunshine and heat.
Continue reading “Boobday: A Hint of Pool”I’ve been thinking a lot about how D/s and all of this has woven into our lives – it’s a huge piece of our responses, our reactions to thing that happen in daily life. And, you also see it literally everywhere in the kink space – from Fetlife to Twitter and other spaces. People lean on their D/s side, their kink side, to help right the ship of life when things get choppy.
Continue reading “Near Misses and Kink Orbits”This is a second part to Charmer’s post, here.
I don’t get as many questions about things as Charmer does – but I do get a lot of assumptions. I get assumptions about what it means to be in an FLR with D/s structure and how it all works for us. It’s odd how people will see a video, read a story someplace and assume that that’s both reality and the same for everyone.
Continue reading “Snake’s Perspective: Lifestyle D/sFLR”One of my, er, assignments… is to to share more pictures. I’m a much more shy snake than Charmer…
Continue reading “Sinful Sunday – Anyone need a towel? (Snake)”It’s another boobday here in the snake pit…
Continue reading “Boobday – Drama!”I always see these checklist of stuff that people (may) like to do, be, participate in, have done, whatever. I’m sure you’ve seen them – my favorite was a Periodic Table of Kink where it showed, by “type” different things people may be interested in. My OCD loves that it’s broken into the different areas and ideas.
But, of course, as soon as you start really looking, you find that there are so very many things (let alone Rule 34) that people like to do. You can see this on Fetlife too – 1000’s of kinks, from situational to objects to every combination you can imagine.
Continue reading “Finally Figured Out My Kink”The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust.
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