Charmer

March 31, 2020

Myth Busting by Charmer

There are always so many myths surrounding D/s and FLR. So many come from books, TV and movies–they get it wrong so much more often than they get it right.

March 30, 2020

With the world where things are right now, date night has to be adjusted. No more deciding on the spur of the moment that we want to eat out. There has to be more planning and less spontaneity which you know doesn’t make me happy.

March 29, 2020March 29, 2020

SoSS 24

Here’s hoping that all of you are healthy and safe and have what you need. These are some of the images and writings that caught our eye this week. [Note: I know this is a day late–life had to be dealt with yesterday. New normal]

March 26, 2020

Boundaries

Content warning: Deals with current events and 9/11

Boundaries are a struggle for me. I tend to go either too loose or totally tighten them down. I don’t compromise very well with them at all.

March 24, 2020

Anniversary Scrabble–The Results

Yes–we did finally finish the game that I started on the 6th…. It ended on Saturday night with my backrub and happy ending.

March 23, 2020

Working From Home

Yep…this is the new normal for a while. We’ve set up an office for you in one of the bedrooms and agreed that you will be back there except for necessities. Actual necessities….

March 21, 2020

SoSS 23

Hope everyone is taking care of yourselves and each other–and here are some things to distract in a fun way.

March 19, 2020

Holding On

Like most of the rest of the world, we are struggling to find a new normal for the time being. It definitely makes it harder to blog about sexy stuff when everything is so scary around us.

March 17, 2020

Quick Scrabble Update

As I mentioned on Twitter, work got crazy right after we got back from Las Vegas so I had to postpone the game for a little bit. It still hasn’t eased up and I don’t see that happening for the near future so I decided that we need the game to carve out a little time for us.

March 16, 2020

Modeling 101

It’s date night. You are bringing home dinner and then it’s time for a photo shoot. Because how else do we get enough photos for the blog?

March 14, 2020

SoSS 22

Here’s hoping that all of you and yours are healthy. And here’s some fun images and writings to keep you happily distracted.

March 12, 2020

Random Thursday Thoughts From Charmer

I was conducting serious research over what to write today–some might call it scrolling walls and timelines, but I prefer the scholarly view–and found this.

March 10, 2020

We Don’t Do Sports, Do We?

I’ve never been the traditional sports person. I know — I’m *so* traditional in all other ways. I did the ballet thing for a year when I was little, twirled a baton for a minute, hiked, tennis with my dad and Tae Kwon Do in high school. Yes, the occasional recital or competition, but nothing really.

March 9, 2020

Choices

“Yes or no?”

You are distracted by what you are reading on your screen and mumble, “What?”

March 7, 2020

SoSS 21

Just back from Vegas–we had a great time and got to relax and take some time for us. And now, while I catch up on posts, here are some that caught our eye this week.

March 5, 2020

Anniversary Scrabble

The crowd goes wild. Snake cringes and hopes that I will lose the handy bag of tiles that are stored in a brown paper wine bag from our trip to Sonoma a few years ago.

March 3, 2020

The Importance of Dating

Snake and I have been together for a couple of years now. Just a few. We dated, then we married and had a few date nights here and there. Life gets busy and you figure, “Hey, we see each other all of the time–we don’t need dates.”

March 2, 2020

Hold This For Me

The band is playing and the lights are flashing blue and purple. We are sitting at the bar and watching people, listening and having a few drinks.

February 29, 2020

SoSS 20

Last post of February–and last Feb Photo Fest picture of 2020! Hope you’ve checked out all of the wonderful images from everyone this month. Here are some writings and images to brighten and inspire…

February 27, 2020

Time Travel

I’ve never really had the desire to travel back. Sure, who doesn’t consider what might happen if we change a catastrophic, or even personal, event? But I’ve always been convinced that somehow the same or possibly even a worse thing might transpire in the vacuum that I create.

February 25, 2020

That Hat…

Yesterday Snake wrote about a certain bar in a certain city with a certain mechanical bull...

February 22, 2020

SoSS 19

Hope you had a sexy and fun week–here are some of the writings and images that we really liked!

February 20, 2020

Regretting the Results

The term regret always makes me think about my mother. She insisted that the only song that she had to have at her funeral was My Way. There were wrong choices and problems in her life but she always kept moving forward.

February 18, 2020

Toxic

What makes a person toxic? To me, it’s a person who can’t see past their own lives and experiences and empathize. If it doesn’t forward their own view of themselves, make them money or something for them, the person or experience or whatever is worthless.

February 17, 2020

Dressed Down

It’s nice to dress up and go out to dinner or dancing or a movie.

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