Who Are Snake and Charmer?

Who are we? We are Snake and Charmer.  We are a married couple exploring D/s, chastity, and kink. We like spending time together, drinking wine, travel and nerding out with movies, video games, and DnD. And sex.  And taking and sharing pictures. And exploring our FLR. Steeled Snake Blog We started this blog in March … Continue reading Who Are Snake and Charmer?

Do you… Kink? And What is Locktober/Chastity About?

Sort of answer the first, with the second. But suffice to say I think I’d be classified as “kinky” and I can vouch for Charmer holding that banner as well. Weird thought, interesting label, but it got me thinking about that. Well, that and a series of posts about Chastity (think diamonds) and so much … Continue reading Do you… Kink? And What is Locktober/Chastity About?

From comment: “What makes you so special?”

We’ve not received the volume of negative comments that others do, for that, I’m not at all unhappy. But we did receive one the other day that actually had me thinking. In essence, (paraphrased) “What makes you so special? FLR and D/s and these things all of you write about don’t make you better than … Continue reading From comment: “What makes you so special?”

Near Misses and Kink Orbits

I’ve been thinking a lot about how D/s and all of this has woven into our lives – it’s a huge piece of our responses, our reactions to thing that happen in daily life. And, you also see it literally everywhere in the kink space – from Fetlife to Twitter and other spaces. People lean … Continue reading Near Misses and Kink Orbits