The cage is a bizarre thing. It means different things to different people. How cool is that? Different people use it in different ways – it feels different to them mentally and physically than anyone else.
Sure there are similarities. There are root things like bondage and control and all of that. But if you read the blogs, you’ll see, it’s never exactly the same.
I think that’s amazing.
Not only that, but, unless *ahem* you’re posting pictures or writing about it 🙂 it’s between you and however you’re doing it – yourself, your keyholder, a little of both, online, offline, all of that.
How much fun is that?!