Exploration is more than “hey, what do you think about THIS!?” – as new buttons are pushed, new things attempted. It’s about a whole mish-mash of experiences, feelings
Month: January 2019
Blue fog…
Up in the foggy NW area of the country so thought blue might be the perfect color…
Continue readingSinful Sunday – Bath time
A warm bath, a good book, some coffee… service with a smile. 🙂
Continue readingTechnical Sex: Control
This… thing that we do. It all started with just goofing off with kink. It quickly progressed to so many things, so much experimenting, and so much learning. I felt a little like I’d been a slacker all my life, just kind of learning as I go.
Kink, or whatever you want to call this thing we do, showed that you can always be learning here too. She was learning about me, me about her. One of the things that I homed in on early on was control. As in orgasm control. You don’t say “yes,” it doesn’t happen kind of control.
Continue readingTaking Time to Relax
Sometimes it’s nice to have a relaxing weekend, enjoying the fireplace, the cooler weather (and even some rain!). Kicked back, chillin’…
Continue readingSharing
Snake seems to enjoy his early morning sneak peek–I treated him today to two of them so thought we’d share one.
Imagination as an additional Sense
I think many times we take it for granted, that we have this additional sense about us that is played with, prodded, poked, yanked, scraped, aggravated, teased and cajoled. I also think it’s one of the most crucial to “this thing we do’ and yet it’s just there… waiting to be unleashed.
They say (who are THEY anyway?) that your biggest sex organ is your mind. So true, and that’s why imagination plays such a huge role. It comes into play before, during and certainly after any type of encounter. Sometimes it’s a good thing, leading you through the planning and helping you be prepared. Other times, messing with that imagination is exactly and precisely the point. To mess with your head.
Fire…..
It’s been unusually cold in the desert so we’ve been able to enjoy the fireplace more than usual. And the sparks that go with it….
Boobday: Lace… aw yeah
Here’s hoping everyone has had a great start to the new year – we know so many people are coming off such a busy time – we hope it was filled with laughs, family and friends!