When we first saw the February Photofest post, we both couldn’t imagine doing a photo every day for a month. It seemed beyond daunting, but we decided to jump in and just commit to it. It’s been challenging some days, silly some days, but always us.
We went to the Renaissance Festival yesterday and I thought I’d share Charmer’s outfit – some may have seen this on our Twitter feeds yesterday. I love that she dresses up and we have a lot of fun with it.
*Posting a little early this week because this sexy gypsy and her adoring fan are off to the Renaissance Festival for some frivolity*
Sometimes, like Friday night, Snake has to work late on a critical project. On nights like those, I like to remind him that I’m waiting and wanting…
As we wander into the play area, you’re already grinning from ear to ear. I can tell you’ve been thinking about this for awhile, and have ideas about what you want to do. Pretty unusual since you’re more of a “by the seat of your pants” type, but every now and then, you’ve planned things out in detail in your mind’s eye and this is one of those.
Closing and locking the door you walk me to the center of the room, put on my wrist cuffs and attach a chain, sit me on a stool you have there. When my hands are up over my head, just enough to stretch well, you attach them to the rings. I’m sort of dangling there, twisting a bit trying to get relaxed into the tug on my arms.
It’s funny… Charmer is like “what do you say? It’s boobs.”
To which I say, “Exactly. Boobs.”
I’m sure you know what I mean…
For our Throwback Thursday, we chose a photo that we shot for a friend who wanted to see my cowboy hat. It seems fitting since the rodeo is here this weekend…
Since we live in the desert, snow is a pretty rare thing. And because the temperature here today was 80F/26C, it’s even more unlikely tonight. But it’s still a pretty sight…
Handing over control is a powerful idea for a lot of guys – chastity goes hand-in-hand with this – you lock it up and hand over the keys and voila! She runs your life, makes the decisions, and things are wonderful. It’s exactly as you imagined it.
Except that’s not how it goes. The reality is you’re two people. You have to work out how you’ll work together, how she’ll make decisions and more. But most of all, she gets to run the show. On the surface, that’s the point. At a deeper level, it’s a huge change.
Today is Monday – #MasturbationMonday of course. But Charmer is a firm believer in lockdown – and making sure I know exactly where things will be staying.
One of the best parts of fun on Saturday night is the lazy cuddling on Sunday morning….
Yesterday I posted a story, “Who’s the boss? (She is)” – talking about Charmer’s knack for taking over situations – today’s picture is a take right out of that thought process – I mean, seriously. It’s hard to even notice the keyboard she’s, um, blocking…
At the end of the week, as the work day starts to wind down, I’m working to finish up, get everyone their final bits to be done for the day. I’ve been heads-down for hours, door shut, putting together the dreaded weekend lists for everyone to finish up over the weekend.
There’s a soft knock at the door and I try to ignore it. But the knocking comes again, this time louder. I mumble something resembling “come in,” hoping that whomever is on the other side of the door will take the hint and go away. Nothing happens. I grin to myself, thinking I succeeded, then the knock again. Now I’m getting annoyed. “Come in!” is all I can get out, with an expletive or two under my breath afterward.
I’ve been going through clothes and getting rid of the ones that I either don’t like or don’t fit anymore. I found this shirt hiding between others and haven’t worn it since before kids. The poor zipper just doesn’t have a chance….
She said “Could you please get me a glass of wine?”
One of my favorite places to be is snuggling with Snake–we’ll fall asleep like this a lot of nights after we play. It’s so comfortable and warm….
Photo courtesy of Marie Opens Up
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Some days are just longer than others. We can’t have Charmer going to sleep with sore feet now, can we?
We have our own business that requires weird hours – add to that the fact that I spent years writing books at night and the hours grow even longer. Every time though, Charmer is there, supporting whatever is going on – in more than 30 years that we’ve been together, she’s always preferred to be sleeping on the couch way into the night and early morning – no matter how late – until I was finished. So, instead of just being alone and working on whatever project is happening, I get company, a view and knowing that she’s making sure I get it done. Pretty amazing.
Today being Valentine’s Day, Charmer thought EVERYONE deserved some flowers and chocolate today. Now I’m off to lick this chocolate off… oh, the work I must endure. 🙂
We were headed to the movies last night to see Deadpool and thought that I would tease Snake just a little before we headed out…. He seemed to like the view.
And the movie was great, btw!
About two weeks ago I wrote about my thoughts when we first started using THE CAGE….I don’t know why but for some reason it always seems like it needs a booming voice to say that.
I talked about the history of our use of THE CAGE–see, you are doing it in your head now too, aren’t you?–and opened up a whole new question set. I said that we didn’t think anything would really change and left it there. Since then there have been a couple of questions about what changed so I’m going to try to talk about that in some coherent way. No promises.
A while back I was reading in I’m Her’s blog about massages. He was talking about how much she loved them and what a great connection point it was for them. So I hunted around for a massage table – the ones you always snicker at when you see them out because “who needs that??” – trust me, they’re amazing.