I never know quite what to expect from Charmer. It could be time to relax on the couch and catch up on some great shows, or could be, something much more intense. Once she decides though, it is pretty clear. 🙂 Let the games begin!
This idea came from a conversation that I had with a friend yesterday. I mentioned that I wasn’t very exciting, not in a poor-me way, but in a this-is-just-my-life way. She came back that I was so many different things and boring wasn’t one of them. She listed mom, business owner, and dancer. I didn’t really think about it again until our initial idea for the picture for today didn’t work out.
Over at the Male Chastity Journal, Lion wrote about “Can’t and Won’t” – and specifically how enforced chastity has applied to their lives. I thought it was really interesting to see the distinction between the two… and it got me thinking about how many things I’ve personally seen go from can’t to won’t to can to simply “yes, please.” It’s a different view on Can’t and Won’t, but it’s just how my brain works. 🙂
While this doesn’t apply only to enforced chastity, when Charmer and I started our journey, we sheepishly stumbled into chastity and I read up all I could. I tore through Thumper’s blog and I’m Hers and so many others. I read and studied (sorry, it’s what I do) and tried to learn what was fantasy, what was real. [SSC: Yes, believe me, he did. I think he would have done a report with citations if he thought that I would have read it. ] I wondered if it was really possible chastity and this new approach to being a couple could really have the impact these blogs talk about.
Anyone who knows me online knows that I’m pretty dominant. *laugh* There are certain days, though, when it is more, almost a living thing. Snake can tell with a single glance. I’m intense. I’m…trouble. And today is one of those days…
As most of you know, Snake has been caged and chaste since July 23rd. I decided that he needed an extended period of time locked to put him back into his subby mindset. He wrote about it here. Since then, he has one ruined and quite a bit of playtime with me on him, but no orgasms. The earliest date that he was going to be allowed to come was September 7th, but because of circumstances, last night was *the night*.
It started off as a pretty average Wednesday night around here. We went to our dance lesson, which we rocked, came home and had dinner and I had a bath. After the last two nights of being denied, I’m pretty sure that he was expecting it again last night. Have to keep the boy guessing…
All day she’d been teasing me, telling me that that night she’d be exercising her Domme side, something I was really looking forward to and, since it’d been so long since we’d had time to ourselves, I was also a bit anxious about just what that would be. We’ve recently decided to up the ante quite a lot on our D/s relationship and the FLR side as well. Something I’ve been working through, not perfectly, but working on it. It also lays entirely at her feet what happens, when, and at what level.
It’s all about the private tease. We went out to dinner knowing that she was wearing only this. It took WAY too long to eat dinner. 🙂