Sometimes it’s nice to have a relaxing weekend, enjoying the fireplace, the cooler weather (and even some rain!). Kicked back, chillin’…Continue reading
Snake seems to enjoy his early morning sneak peek–I treated him today to two of them so thought we’d share one.
I think many times we take it for granted, that we have this additional sense about us that is played with, prodded, poked, yanked, scraped, aggravated, teased and cajoled. I also think it’s one of the most crucial to “this thing we do’ and yet it’s just there… waiting to be unleashed.
They say (who are THEY anyway?) that your biggest sex organ is your mind. So true, and that’s why imagination plays such a huge role. It comes into play before, during and certainly after any type of encounter. Sometimes it’s a good thing, leading you through the planning and helping you be prepared. Other times, messing with that imagination is exactly and precisely the point. To mess with your head.
It’s been unusually cold in the desert so we’ve been able to enjoy the fireplace more than usual. And the sparks that go with it….
Here’s hoping everyone has had a great start to the new year – we know so many people are coming off such a busy time – we hope it was filled with laughs, family and friends!
Collars are interesting – interesting in that they initially seem pretty light-handed in their usefulness, but then you find out that the symbolism combined with that usefulness can be huge. And the impact it has on you mentally and even physically can be really quite strong as well.
Warm showers always feel so good on chilly mornings…
It’s that look in your eyes that does it. It gives you away every time. I’ve explained it before, but we can be out and about, at a restaurant, at a bar, just walking around, exploring. It doesn’t really matter what’s going on – but I can look over and see that look – it’s all about being in that playful mood.
Depending on the situation, that can be a kid around thing, or it can be a “batten down the hatches” thing where I know things could get really edgy in a very short amount of time.
I guess there isn’t much more to say than “Happy Friday!”
Perhaps not an explicit “fantasy” type of post, but the whole control thing has been one of the more intriguing (and hard to figure out at times) aspects of having a D/SFLR relationship. It’s oddly a button for me, and it’s a button for Charmer – at opposing ends of the spectrum of course, so it’s been important to figure out.